My fiance and I are having a hard time coming to an agreement on what we want for a wedding.
I want a late morning ceremony with a brunch reception and lawn games with our main families and close friends.
He wants a courthouse ceremony with just 2 of our friends for witnesses and no family at all.
We tried to compromise by having a small wedding at our local park with just our parents and close friends but now my family are all upset and are starting to say they'll pitch in and help out with costs and everything. And one of my aunt's has already booked her flight for the date even though she never received a save the date or invitation or anything. She only knew about the date from talking to another one of my aunt's who lives locally.
My thoughts are maybe we should have the ceremony and reception on different days. So we can have the small ceremony my fiancè wants, and the reception with family that I want.
Has anyone ever done this? How did it work? I don't want to hurt my families feelings by not inviting them.
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