What about videography? Is have a professional video of your wedding day a must-have for you? Or is it just an upgrade you've considered? Essential or extra?
Essential, if you can make it happen - A friend of ours did it for free. I am so grateful for that video. The ceremony was a blur and I love being able to go back and relive it - especially since every part of our ceremony was original and written for us. We joked through the whole thing and it is just joyful to watch. I don't care that it isn't professional - I'm just glad we got the words and the reactions.
Extra. My FH's dad use to do videography for weddings as an extra job during the summer and was pretty good at it. My FH and I agreed though: No matter how good the videographer, the people in the video are not actors - they are family and friends - most of which are not use to being on camera. For this reason, it will feel like a home movie to us. A professional and beautiful one, but one all the same...and we never watch them. We'd rather spend the money on photos we actually will look at and use.
For those who want videography though, you do you! :-)
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October 2019
Quebec
Cherry ·
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Depends on each couples situation. For me it's essential cause my mother can't survive a 30 hours flight to my wedding. I am willing to cut other expenses and allocate the fund for videographer so she would be able to see the wedding. Pictures couldn't capture the moment as much as video would.
Extra that I would really, really love to have but probably won't. Photos are essential and I'm willing to pay good money for them, but I can't justify the cost of videography.
Videography: Extra. Photography: Essential. You can always look back at pictures. Nobody looks back at videos as they’re time consuming. Quality also changes as the years go by, so video may become useless. Think about how many people who will videotape on their phone, free video footage captured!
Extra! And we are not doing it. Just a cost that will be wasted I believe. I'm more of a photography person and so if my fiance. We much prefer having photos around the house and such.
Extra. but we're hiring wedding mix to make sure we catch all the important moments on film, particularly the speeches
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September 2019
Quebec
Valérie ·
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Extra - Thinking back to my parents' wedding video, I don't think they've watched it in the last 20 years. That being said, I've definitely gone through their wedding photos a tonne, as well as my grandparents' wedding photos!