The age-old question!
We are having a moderately sized wedding with around 150 guests and I am trying to finalize our guest list. My parents are pretty traditional and they think I should invite my boss, manager and another colleague, but I am very hesitant to do so. I work in a pretty small department with the 4 of us, but they are not the type of colleagues I hang out with or see outside of work. I am however inviting 4 other colleagues who I do see outside of work and consider friends. Because of this, I am worried it will be awkward if I don’t invite the 3 I work directly with. My fiancé feels i should invite them to avoid any awkwardness that may arise after our wedding. I have room for them but I have this feelings I shouldn’t invite them just because people are expecting me to. It also doesn’t help that my fiancé and I have decided not to have speeches at our reception and I happened to mention it at work, and my boss has voiced her strong and negative opinions about it (“What kind of wedding doesn’t have speeches? That would be such a boring wedding!”). Should I just invite them because it’s customary or follow my gut feeling? Thanks for any advice!
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