Did you ever wish you were eloping instead?

Innocent - I have been dreaming of my wedding since I was little!

Yes! It would be so much easier and we'd be saving tons of money. But at the end of the day, I feel like I'd have a slight pang of regret later in life.

Guilty. But It would disappoint so many people. So we’re keeping the wedding small.
Some days like today, I think of eloping lol

Guilty, I've told FH numerous times I'd be willing to cancel the wedding and elope because I find the drama insufferable.

Guilty on my husband's side because he thought all the drama and spending was outrageous. He didn't realize that what is spent is non-refundable going to waste if he was to cancel.

It was my husband in the first place to agree to have the small wedding as I had mentioned.

For like half a second, I am over it.

Guilty- my FH and I were just saying that last night. Drama and frustration from the families throughout the whole wedding process.

Yes! All of the time.

But we also really want to be able to celebrate with our close friends and family so we’re happy with the path we’ve decided.

Guilty - but only because weddings are expensive

Definitely. At least every other month. I am still questioning it with 4 weeks to go.

Guilty! The idea of being married in front of people in the family that I have to invite but barely know makes me very uncomfortable

Guilty. Only for saving money for a house instead lol

I've said it to my fiancee a couple of times. The stress isn't anything crazy, just spending money on a crazy party for even crazier relatives to attend isn't our cup of tea

Yes guilty !!
Stressing about who makes the cut for the guest list has pushed me so close to wanting to elope!

Guilty - but then again I'm always down for a party 😁

Nope. My family would probably murder me haha

Sometimes yes.

No way! We've been together nine years, I want the partay!

Innocent. Our wedding day and the planning all went so smoothly.

No, I was too excited to dance the night away with the people I love most.

No. I've always dreamed of a big wedding. Plus our parents would kill us!

OH YES GUILTY. I actually wanted to elope but the fiance wants the whole shibang.....seeing how the costs are piling up I still think about eloping.

No. Not yet anyway. I’m so excited for our big day and do really want to share it with all our family and friends. We will save the alone time for the honeymoon!

Yes a few times

Yes, while im happy with everything it would have been much cheaper to elope.

Up until recently no but lately yes and it makes me sad because we can’t please everyone and they still keep insisting or making things seem like it’s wrong and i just want to marry my fiancé in private and that’s that

Oh my God yes. I feel conflicted because I want all of our family and friends there, but I don't want to have to spend the money. I always have the thought in the back of my head whenever I look at stuff for the wedding, or buy something for it, that I could be spending this on this or that for my kids or my pets (2 dogs and a rabbit) 🙈🙈

Not a chance.

Never ever. A lot of my family can't travel

No I've always wanted a big wedding

Haha yes. our friends just did, it seemed simple and romantic. I was a little jealous

Not in the least.