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Did you ever wish you were eloping instead?

Lynnie, on November 6, 2017 at 12:28 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 55

Last question!!

Throughout the entire wedding planning process - have you ever said *or thought* "man I wish we were eloping instead"? Are you innocent or guilty ?



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Latest activity by Emily, on September 5, 2018 at 09:07
  • Emily
    Devoted February 2020 Ontario
    Emily ·
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    Innocent - I have been dreaming of my wedding since I was little!

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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
    Rachael ·
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    Yes! It would be so much easier and we'd be saving tons of money. But at the end of the day, I feel like I'd have a slight pang of regret later in life.

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  • Cynthia
    Curious August 2020 Ontario
    Cynthia ·
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    Guilty. But It would disappoint so many people. So we’re keeping the wedding small.
    Some days like today, I think of eloping lol
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  • Melissa
    Frequent user September 2018 Quebec
    Melissa ·
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    Guilty, I've told FH numerous times I'd be willing to cancel the wedding and elope because I find the drama insufferable.

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Guilty on my husband's side because he thought all the drama and spending was outrageous. He didn't realize that what is spent is non-refundable going to waste if he was to cancel.

    It was my husband in the first place to agree to have the small wedding as I had mentioned.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    For like half a second, I am over it.

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Jessie ·
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    Guilty- my FH and I were just saying that last night. Drama and frustration from the families throughout the whole wedding process.

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
    Leah ·
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    Yes! All of the time.

    But we also really want to be able to celebrate with our close friends and family so we’re happy with the path we’ve decided.
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  • Genis
    Frequent user January 2019 Alberta
    Genis ·
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    Guilty - but only because weddings are expensive

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  • Carrie
    Frequent user May 2018 Ontario
    Carrie ·
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    Definitely. At least every other month. I am still questioning it with 4 weeks to go.

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  • MJay
    Beginner October 2018 Quebec
    MJay ·
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    Guilty! The idea of being married in front of people in the family that I have to invite but barely know makes me very uncomfortable
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  • Jasminecurrie
    Curious July 2021 Ontario
    Jasminecurrie ·
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    Guilty. Only for saving money for a house instead lol
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  • Arielle
    Devoted July 2020 British Columbia
    Arielle ·
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    I've said it to my fiancee a couple of times. The stress isn't anything crazy, just spending money on a crazy party for even crazier relatives to attend isn't our cup of tea

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  • Brittney
    Curious October 2018 Alberta
    Brittney ·
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    Yes guilty Smiley winking!!
    Stressing about who makes the cut for the guest list has pushed me so close to wanting to elope!

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  • Casey
    Frequent user November 2018 Alberta
    Casey ·
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    Guilty - but then again I'm always down for a party 😁
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  • Sammie
    Frequent user July 2018 Alberta
    Sammie ·
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    Nope. My family would probably murder me haha
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  • Christine
    Curious July 2019 Alberta
    Christine ·
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    Sometimes yes.
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  • Shelly
    Curious June 2019 Ontario
    Shelly ·
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    No way! We've been together nine years, I want the partay!

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  • Shelby
    Frequent user October 2017 British Columbia
    Shelby ·
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    Innocent. Our wedding day and the planning all went so smoothly.

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  • Joey
    WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland
    Joey ·
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    No, I was too excited to dance the night away with the people I love most.

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  • Alexis
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    No. I've always dreamed of a big wedding. Plus our parents would kill us!
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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    OH YES GUILTY. I actually wanted to elope but the fiance wants the whole shibang.....seeing how the costs are piling up I still think about eloping.

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  • Chanelle
    Frequent user September 2019 British Columbia
    Chanelle ·
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    No. Not yet anyway. I’m so excited for our big day and do really want to share it with all our family and friends. We will save the alone time for the honeymoon!
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  • Laurie
    Curious July 2018 Ontario
    Laurie ·
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    Yes a few times
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  • Barbara
    Devoted July 2018 Ontario
    Barbara ·
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    Yes, while im happy with everything it would have been much cheaper to elope.
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  • Sonia
    Frequent user May 2019 Quebec
    Sonia ·
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    Up until recently no but lately yes and it makes me sad because we can’t please everyone and they still keep insisting or making things seem like it’s wrong and i just want to marry my fiancé in private and that’s that
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  • Larissa Lauzon
    Frequent user August 2020 Nova Scotia
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    Oh my God yes. I feel conflicted because I want all of our family and friends there, but I don't want to have to spend the money. I always have the thought in the back of my head whenever I look at stuff for the wedding, or buy something for it, that I could be spending this on this or that for my kids or my pets (2 dogs and a rabbit) 🙈🙈
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  • Surina
    Frequent user March 2018 Ontario
    Surina ·
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    Not a chance.
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  • Vanessa
    Expert August 2018 Manitoba
    Vanessa ·
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    Never ever. A lot of my family can't travel
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  • J
    Frequent user April 2018 Ontario
    Jessica ·
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    No I've always wanted a big wedding
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  • Shannon
    Curious February 2018 British Columbia
    Shannon ·
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    Haha yes. our friends just did, it seemed simple and romantic. I was a little jealous

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  • Nicole
    Curious September 2018 Prince Edward Island
    Nicole ·
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    Not in the least.
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