Recently I've seen quite a few posts about worries that you are being too demanding or bridezilla as the term is. We have all been there or will be there where a specific detail just isn't going as planned and we start to panic and maybe get a bit crazy and that's okay!! It's our wedding day!!!!! We want it to be as perfect we can have it. Yeah, not everything works out exactly as planned and we know that and prepare for that.
When we are planning our wedding and a bridesmaid or groomsmen is being difficult or our FMIL keeps adding people to HER guest list or when a vendor cancels or give you a hard time, those are the times that stress us out the most and we are allowed to get mad and frustrated and say no because it's OUR day not theirs. You and your fiancé(e) are spending lots of money and time to plan this wedding and you have every right to be bossy and demand perfection. So don't worry if someone calls you a bridezilla and don't worry about acting like one because sometimes it's okay to. Yes we all want to please our family, friends and all our guests but that doesn't mean what they want can come first and they need to respect that. You can't please everyone no matter how hard you try.
So I just want to remind you all that it's okay to be a little crazy sometimes because we have been working our butts off to plan our weddings! Don't be afraid to say no, don't be afraid to get strict and don't be afraid to piss a few people off.
