Banquet Hall or Community Facility?

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It's about 70 or so people. It's $1800 just for the rental, catering costs may be cheaper which is helpful, but what I am finding to be problematic is the fact that we can't reserve this space until late this year or early next year, which does not work when you are coordinating with churches, etc.

I would go with the first one. I don't know how many people are attending but $5000 seems like a great deal. You are getting wine, food and other stuff you need for that price. Besides, you don't have to worry about getting everything yourself and you won't have to worry about the setup and clean up. I guess it depends on the type of person you are and whether or not you will find that stressful. Is it $1800 just for the rental? If you go with the second one how much will you save after buying purchasing linen and wine glasses, napkins and food? Sometimes it's worth spending the extra money.

I have been to weddings at both and honestly the first option is the way to go! A lot less stressful when everything is there and most things are done for you! The second option is a lot more work, especially for your family and friends that have to help. Yes, you save money, but some of the enjoyment of the wedding is gone for your guests (and you two!) because there is work to do before and after.

I like the sound of the first option much better. $5000 is a great price for what you're getting, PLUS you get the peace of mind of knowing that someone else will take care of set-up/clean-up on your special day when all you should be focusing on is getting married and having a good time.

$1800 sounds great but everything adds up if you have to DIY it, plus that means having to coordinate so much more.

I would go with the first one because 5000 is a great deal for everything! The only way I would go with the second option is if you could have the venue booked for the day after the wedding as well so that you don't have to worry about the clean up after the wedding and can enjoy it for the night I'm sure family and friends will clean up for you regardless sense it's your big day!

I would go with the first honestly can’t belive you get the food included! At the end of the night not having to clean up and then setting it all up. That’s amazing price it’s worth no stress

Having food included and a venue for $5000 sounds like a really great deal. I'd go with the first one so that you don't have to clean anything up!

I would write a list of pros and cons and take a look at it with your fiancé and look at the price difference and see what you’re okay with. Also take a look at set up/take down crews if you like the second venue. Sometimes they can be reasonably priced, and it would take away some of that worry in regards to clean up.

It all depends on you. Are you the type of person/people who can organize, stay organized, make to-do lists, plan/research, DIY, etc... and for the most part enjoy it?

I'm very DIY, I would be able to plan/organize my wedding and make all those steps... but if you would find it difficult, or tiring/unenjoyable, go with the turn key option.

You want your wedding day to be happy, joyful, and as little stress as possible. If you think it will be too stressful, don't do it.

Also, your FH should promise a whole lot of time commitment as well towards planning and DIY projects if he's pushing for that option.