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Newbie October 2019 Ontario

Ball Gown Inappropriate?

Lauren, on April 25, 2018 at 11:16 Posted in Wedding fashion 0 19

I want to wear a ball gown wedding dress on our special day.

My only concern is that my wedding will be very intimate. We're only having 25 guests with a dinner reception at our favorite restaurant. I'm concerned that a ball gown will be inappropriate.

I have tried on some gowns and I feel that the ball gown silhouette looks the most flattering. I also want to make a memorable entrance for our church ceremony and I feel that a ball gown would have that effect. My gown will not have a long train either.

19 Comments

Latest activity by Lauren, on April 27, 2018 at 13:34
  • L
    Newbie October 2019 Ontario
    Lauren ·
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    Thanks so much for the support.
    I always thought that ball gowns were only meant for grand weddings with a huge guest list.
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  • Kay
    Devoted September 2018 Nova Scotia
    Kay ·
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    Girl you do whatever you want! Who cares if there is only 25 people at your wedding? Wear the hugest ball gown you can find if that is what makes you happy!

    I dislike this whole "The dress should be appropriate to the venue" type thing. The dress should only matter to one person, the one wearing it (and your spouse, obv. but if you love it, they will too!)

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  • Andie
    Expert May 2019 Ontario
    Andie ·
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    Do it!!! If you really feel uncomfortable about wearing it to the reception, you could always buy a white cocktail dress to change into.

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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    GO FOR IT! If you love them and you love how you feel in them then there is no other question!!

    Even if you're in a small restaurant oh well! Bump a few things off the table they can always be picked back up!

    Rock that dress!

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    If you want the ball gown then girl wear it! It's your day, no matter how much or how little people will be there you can look like a princess if you want to!
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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    Definitely wear the ball gown. It's about what you want for your day. I think the only way a wedding dress is inappropriate is if you wear a skimpy dress to a religious ceremony... haha.

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  • Clarissa
    Expert October 2018 Saskatchewan
    Clarissa ·
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    When it comes to the dress go with what feels right when it comes to the silhouette. You want to feel confident and special on the day. And I agree that if your concerned about it being too formal find one that isn’t 10ft wide. And if the extremely large ball gown is the one then go for it. After all the bride is allowed to be as overdressed as they want for their own wedding. After all no one should be challenging you for that crown on the big day.

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  • Joey
    WeddingWire Admin May 2015 Maryland
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    Wear the ballgown!! It's your wedding day and you deserve to feel beautiful and confident, your guest list size doesn't need to dictate your dress style

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  • Courtney
    Newbie August 2018 Alberta
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    On your special day it's never too much! This is your one chance to wear the dress of your dreams so go for it!

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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
    Jennifer ·
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    I agree with the other ladies it’s your day! If you’re really worried about it you could have a second dress but that depends on your budget and you might as well rock your dream dress all day! Haha
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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
    Jennifer ·
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    You do you!!!! Smiley smile but if you are concerned about it being too much. when trying on ball gowns, have the sales consultant see how many layers are under it. or don't add extra crinoline (or get one that can be taken out between ceremony/reception

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    If it’s what you really want to wear, I think you should! You don’t want a dress you don’t really like.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    If it will make you happy, wear the ball gown. You don't want to look back on your wedding day with regret over what dress you wore.

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  • Gina
    Super April 2019 Alberta
    Gina ·
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    I say go for it! It’s your wedding and you should wear whatever makes you feel beautiful and amazing! It’s wouldnt be inappropriate at all.
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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
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    I agree with the other girls! Do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If you do find it too "poofy" you could always ask whoever is doing your alterations to remove a layer of crinoline, but really, if it looks great, do it!

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    I don't think it's inappropriate at all! You do you, girl! Whatever you feel is the most flattering on your body type is the style of dress you should get.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    I don't think it is inappropriate at all! If that is the style you like and makes you happiest than go for it!

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    There are ballgowns that aren't humongous and hard to get around in. Mine is ankle length right now (will be shortened to tea length), very light and not super poofy.

    Do what you want! It's your weedding, after all!
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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
    Chloe ·
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    I don’t think it will be inappropriate! It’s your special day! I think you should wear whatever you feel the most beautiful in!
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