My maid of honour's grandfather passed away today. The funeral is on Saturday which is when she had planned my bachelorette party. I am so sad for her loss and i plan on attending the visitation tomorrow, but she really wants me to move forward with the bachelorette party she planned for me even though she can't be there. I would never be upset that she can't be there, as she is absolutely where she needs to be, but i am also very sad at the thought of not having her there with me. It doesn't seem right. I'm going to respect her wishes and still have the party as she worked so hard on planning it and everything is booked and paid for. Not looking for advice or what to do, but sharing my sadness.