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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Are you inviting exes?

Lynnie, on November 20, 2017 at 10:27 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 27

This week we're finding out all about your guest list, and who made the cut!

Time to spill! Who's in and who's out?

Last question!!

Are you inviting either of your exes? Did they make the cut?


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That's it for this week!!

To start from the beginning, click here: The Guest List: Who's in and who's out?

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27 Comments

Latest activity by Jessie, on June 13, 2018 at 11:59
  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    Nope. Not nescessary

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Would never think of it. Too much drama would come out of it.
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  • Holly
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
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    Nope not a chance! I strongly dislike the girl he was seeing before me (not because she's an ex for other reasons) and they remained friends for a while after they ended it and that bothered me. However neither of our exes are currently our friends, nor do we have any contact with them whatsoever so nope, no invite for them!
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  • Victoria
    Expert November 2019 Ontario
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    LOL NO EXES.

    My FH was my bestie while dating my ex, and my ex always had a problem with it. Needless to say he's prob not stoked on the engagement.

    Too bad so sad Smiley winking

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  • Amanda
    Beginner August 2019 British Columbia
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    My fiance jokingly mentioned inviting his ex only because shes the mother of his children (whom are invited) I looked him dead in the eye and gave a stern no to which he a laughed and agreed.
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  • Sonia
    Frequent user May 2019 Quebec
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    Considering my ex turned into a crazy stalker who hacked into all my possible accounts, it’s a solid no
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  • Dani
    Frequent user February 2018 British Columbia
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    Nope

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  • Sydney
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
    Sydney ·
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    Neither of us are friends with any of our exes, so we don't have this problem, luckily!

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  • Brenda
    Expert April 2018 Ontario
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    I made a cut already, a bridesmaid my good friend she had some finacial issues and that was that. My ex is my ex and though some have the priveledge to have a sound relationship with theirs that's not the case for me. I have to admit I though about it though!!
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  • M
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    Marina ·
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    Probably the way you and I define exes is just different. Ex for me is not the guy I casually used to date and then just stopped after a few months. Ex is my previous boyfriend, with whom we were living together for 4 years and then things went wrong.

    Couldnt even care less about what’s-their-name people that went on a date with them.

    Just to clarify, so that statements like yours will be avoided.
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  • H
    Frequent user June 2019 Ontario
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    Straight people are wild.
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  • M
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    Totally second that. No exes for no reason whatsoever; exes come with the potential of drama or friction
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  • B
    Super August 2017 Alberta
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    I invited his ex but she declined Hahaha
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  • Charlene
    Curious May 2018 Ontario
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    Absolutely not.
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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    Neither of us talks to any of our exes so that's not a problem.

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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    Definitely not. My daughters father however will be coming to pick my daughter up later in the evening.

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  • Bethany
    Super July 2018 Alberta
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    No exes for either of us so it's not an issue!!
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  • Daphne
    Super July 2017 British Columbia
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    Nope, there were no exes invited.

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  • Maegan
    Super July 2018 British Columbia
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    Neither of us have any exes to invite... But we do have some drama around Inviting a groomsman's ex... Who we were close with for 4 or 5 years before they broke up and she is still associated with our friend group. Not sure on our decision on that yet.
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  • A
    Beginner September 2018 Ontario
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    They were X'd for a reason. No need for the exes at the wedding
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  • R
    Beginner June 2018 Nova Scotia
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    Yes, 2 of mine will be there. One was from high school, but we decided we were best off as friends, and he happens to be friends of my fiancé’s as well! And the other is a good friend of ours and we spend a lot of time in groups together
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    No

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  • Ap2017
    Super September 2017 Ontario
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    We don't keep in touch with our exes so that's a hard no.

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  • H
    Frequent user June 2019 Ontario
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    I'm going to be inviting at least one woman I casually dated in the past. We decided after a month or so that we were better off as friends, but are still close. I am friends with several women I used to date (very normal for lesbians) and the idea of not inviting them to my wedding because of that is laughable.


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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
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    Absolutely not! Neither of us is even friends with our exes.
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  • Sasha
    Super October 2017 Ontario
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    Nope no exes
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  • Ashley
    Expert March 2018 Ontario
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    No exes for us!

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