Are you inviting everyone who asks?

I find myself having the opposite problem, where we have some people who we do not know as well but who I would like to invite just for fun, but worry that they would think it's weird. The specific example is my colleagues at my new job I started a few weeks back. I remember my mom going to weddings for her colleagues many a time, but they were people she's known for years. Any thoughts?

Nope, my sister-in-laws friend asked me if she could be invited and i said sorry, small wedding. then she asked if she can come after dinner for the party and i just walked away lol

Definitely not - we have a set amount at our location which makes it a bit easier to say no to people because we just don't have the capacity.

We are having a small wedding, so no, but it's so hard when people ask!

I only had one former coworker ask. And she wasn’t invited.

We haven't had that happen but if anyone did who's not already on the list, absolutely not.

I have only had one person fish for an invitation, and they are a toxic person I don't even like. It wasn't hard to say a more polite version of "Hell no" (Limited space/budget)

Definitely not

Definitely not. I sort of get all awkward but don't say anything and try to move on. Thankfully there's only 17 days so no one is really asking anymore

Not at all! We have limited space.

1 was an exemption that I had known for years when showing the wedding card and couldn't make it after all.

To the party, yes. If you want to come "crash the wedsing"" then no problem!

Nope! I had the "budget and spacing" excuse down pat!

Absolutely not!

Nope! ive been telling people no loll!

Nope! Though we haven't had many people ask outside of a few co-workers.

We're finding most people assume they aren't invited and are excited when we tell them they are

No! lol. its our day, we invited who we wanted,and didn't really listen to anyone else lol

Oh no. We’ve had enough guest list woes and costs that not just anybody is coming.

We have been lucky that we haven’t had any one ask as of yet. It probably helps that those who I talk to about the wedding are already invited, and I tend not to talk about it to those not in my tight circle of family and friends....outside of the WW community of course lol!

Probably not. If that person was on our maybe list we probably would.

HA! No.
We had one rule during planning : No decisions were to be made without the other partner there. So if something came up, we'd say "That's a good question/idea/suggestion, let me talk to my partner and get back to you on that"
This way, we didn't feel left out of a decision and weren't caught off guard either.

I'm not looking forward to our annual Christmas get together that FH's Grandma always hosts for this reason. We're not inviting all of FH's aunt's/uncle's/cousins because A) there's so many of them, it almost doubles our guest list and B) this Christmas party is the only time we see them during the year. So I'm trying to come up with the right things to say when it's brought up now so I'm not put on the spot. But I'll have to stay strong no matter what since deposits and details have already been given to all my vendors for a certain number of people

No, we've been pretty lucky though that we've only had one person fishing for an invite that I can recall.

NOPE! A lot of people asking were my cousins who are under 18 so I was unable to invite them. Plus farm people are nosy and think you owe them an invite even though you have only seen them twice in your life...

I'm not inviting anyone not on your guest list. Though if my minimum is not meet I may invite some extra. I will let them know why they got the invite late.

Definitely not.