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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Add twenty guests or cut twenty guests?

Lynnie, on May 27, 2019 at 09:05 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 42

If you had to choose right now - would you rather add twenty more guests to your guest list? 💌 Or cut twenty guests?? ✂️


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42 Comments

Latest activity by BunnyBride, on July 30, 2019 at 17:39
  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    If money wasn't a factor, add twenty. My FH's parents both come from large families (like 6-7 siblings each), so it would give the guest list more flexibility and wiggle room.

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  • Mikaela
    Frequent user August 2019 New Brunswick
    Mikaela ·
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    For financial reasons I would love to say cut 20. For personal enjoyment (and if budget didn't matter) I would say add 20!
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  • Claire
    Frequent user September 2019 Ontario
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    I would add 20!
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  • A
    Beginner July 2019 Saskatchewan
    Ashlee ·
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    I would Add 20!
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  • A
    Newbie August 2021 British Columbia
    Amanda ·
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    Tough decision....but Cut
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  • Michelle
    Beginner November 2022 Ontario
    Michelle ·
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    Add 20, because we are having a small 50-60 wedding, so more the marrier!
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  • Allison
    Frequent user June 2019 Ontario
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    Cut 29? Funny story, our total guest count for invitations sent was 150! We only have 121 attending now that RSVPs are done.

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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    I would love to add 20 more ppl but we are at max capacity at our venue so it's just not meant to be Smiley sad

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  • Nelly
    Curious October 2019 Ontario
    Nelly ·
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    Add twenty guests the more the merrier
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  • Jenna
    Frequent user February 2021 Nova Scotia
    Jenna ·
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    Add 20. I wouldn’t be able to cut anyone off of our current list.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    Cut---- I couldn't financially add more

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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
    Seleena ·
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    I mean...this is a tough call. I only have 22 guests, so if I cut 20 of them, I'd be left with 2 people. I guess I'd have to add 20! Along with more money from the previous question! lol

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
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    Add twenty. As much as financially I’d love to cut- we can’t cut anymore. We’re at the basics plus like 5-6 people. Thankfully there’s a fair number of people who can’t come so it wouldn’t kill us
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    Add 20. We had so many people not co e due to distance that we planned for more than cane!
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  • Mandy
    Devoted July 2019 Alberta
    Mandy ·
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    20 more people.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Cut 20 guest but only if I get to pick which ones lol.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    Add, we have a small list so if we cut it would be way too small!
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    Cut for sure. That's a lot of money we could save. But our venue has a minimum number of guests so we can't really cut any without potentially dipping below the threshold.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    CUT 20 guests and save that much more money!

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  • Loi-Marie
    Curious September 2021 Ontario
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    Definitely cut 20 guests
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  • T
    Curious September 2020 Quebec
    Tanya ·
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    I’d cut 20 guests (old family members my mom insists on inviting) and would add 20 of my friends right after that 😂
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  • Amanda
    Expert July 2022 Ontario
    Amanda ·
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    Cut 20! I have enough to begin with that i'd like to cut but because they are "family" they were added Smiley angry

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  • Hélène
    Devoted September 2019 Alberta
    Hélène ·
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    If I cut 20 guests, it would only be the wedding party. lol

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  • Stephanie
    Frequent user July 2021 Ontario
    Stephanie ·
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    This one is tough.
    I honestly think either would be equally the same inconvenience, however both could be done.
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  • Rachael
    Super October 2019 Ontario
    Rachael ·
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    I'd say cut 20 guests even though that's nearly half of our guest list. I don't want anyone else attending as we already have a few more than we need.

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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya ·
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    We literally don't have any more people in our lives that we would consider inviting but I guess add 20 so my parents could invite their friends

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Add 20. We have a minimum count/spend we need. So we’re paranoid if we don’t get our number ... 😑😑😑
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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    This is easy lol - cut 20 guests!!!

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  • Monique
    Devoted August 2020 Saskatchewan
    Monique ·
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    I would cut 20 and just cut dates
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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    I would rather add than cut!
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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    Cut 20... then we'd just elope lol
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    I'd cut 20, there's easily almost 20 people that are closer to my parents that would be off the list... if I absolutely had to lol

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