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Would you rather... forget your vows or forget the rings?

Joey, on September 18, 2017 at 08:05 Posted in Wedding Tests 0 33
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You've gotten all ready, you've made it to the ceremony venue, the procession went great, and your ceremony is under way. Everything is going great until your officiant asks you a question, and your stomach drops. Everything stops and all eyes are on you -- you forgot something!

Would you rather forget your vows?Would you rather forget your vows?

Of forget the rings and have to improvise? Of forget the rings and have to improvise?

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33 Comments

Latest activity by Clare, on September 4, 2020 at 13:53
  • Clare
    Frequent user August 2021 Manitoba
    Clare ·
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    Lol I would rather forget my vows cuz there’s a plan B . Forgetting the rings is a mess
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  • Nelly
    Devoted October 2021 Ontario
    Nelly ·
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    I would rather forget my vows and use traditional ones anyways

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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
    BunnyBride ·
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    Vows. We could probably wing it or just ask the JP to feed us one of the standard ones. I know myself and my FH well enough that, if the rings went missing, we would not be able to enough the night as much until they were found. It would bother us.

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  • Kris
    Frequent user October 2019 Nevada
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    Vows for sure! We are both good talkers so we can come up with something at the fly

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  • Monique
    Devoted August 2020 Saskatchewan
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    Before getting engaged, I would say the vows but when FH proposed, I said something embarrassing so I would definitely say the rings. You could always improvise with something else

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  • Natasha
    Devoted June 2019 Ontario
    Natasha ·
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    Forget my vows because you can simply just speak from your heart but the rings that’s a no.
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  • Kay
    Devoted September 2018 Nova Scotia
    Kay ·
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    Uh, vows for sure!

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    Vows for sure, you can make something up on the spot. You can't make up rings.

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Jessie ·
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    Vows because you can just speak from your heart. you can't make new rings

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  • B
    Devoted September 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    Forget My vows!
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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
    Amanda ·
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    Vows. I’d just wing it! Haha
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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    Vows over rings.
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  • Bethany
    Super July 2018 Alberta
    Bethany ·
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    Haha my parents ended up forgetting their rings but had friends that lent them theirs! So it's not a huge deal if either were to happen for me! Improvisation is key!!
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  • Barbara
    Devoted July 2018 Ontario
    Barbara ·
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    Vows for sure, we'll be repeating them anyways Smiley smile
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  • Chloe
    Super May 2018 Ontario
    Chloe ·
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    Rings! We actually won't have our rings in the ceremony. We are forging them for each other afterwards. And we are writing our own vows, so I would absolutely hate not to have them!
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  • Shaina
    Frequent user April 2019 Ontario
    Shaina ·
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    Vows. I'm not making my own so I'm pretty sure someone is gonna be feeding them to me line by line anyways.
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  • Nicole
    Curious September 2018 Prince Edward Island
    Nicole ·
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    Forget the vows! Can make them up on the spot if necessary Smiley winking

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  • Sydney
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
    Sydney ·
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    I feel like I'd rather forget the vows, because I could improvise and still be okay... I feel like my fiancé would say the opposite, and say that he would rather forget the rings. Forgetting your vows could just result in some laughter, and some nervousness... we'll probably both be nervous anyways!

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  • Mzheng
    Frequent user August 2018 British Columbia
    Mzheng ·
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    Forget my vows. If I had previously written something, I can probably remember half of it on the spot and if not I'm sure it will make for some spontaneous giggles between the couple and their guests.

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    Forget the rings. We are both very uncomfortable with public speaking, so forgetting our vows would probably add to the stress.

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    Vows. Can always turn to the traditional ones.

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    Vows haha I'm a decent BSer on the spot

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  • Alanah
    Frequent user July 2018 British Columbia
    Alanah ·
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    The vows, as we most likely aren't writing our own 😉
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  • Daphne
    Super July 2017 British Columbia
    Daphne ·
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    The vows. We could always “wing it” for those. The rings not so much.
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  • Ashley
    Super June 2018 Alberta
    Ashley ·
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    Our officiant asked that our vows be done when we have our planning meeting a month before the wedding. She is going to have a copy incase. We’re extra prepared. But forgetting the rings would suck.
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  • Terri
    Beginner August 2018 British Columbia
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    I would rather forget the rings. We are writing our vows, and if I forgot what I was promising and could not think of the right words I would be so heartbroken. And it would eat me if there were items I left out of the vows because I forgot them. The rings are materials, and yes they symbolize the marriage; yet the vows mean much more to me

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  • Faith
    Devoted October 2017 Ontario
    Faith ·
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    I want traditional views so I don't run into this situation. But either way I'd rather forget the vows than the rings
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  • Lesley
    Super September 2017 Manitoba
    Lesley ·
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    Forget the vows even though we're not writing our own so it doesn't matter. the rings don't really matter either. You don't actually need either of them to get married.

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  • Erin
    Expert September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    Forget the vows! At least you're officiant can guide you along, if you forget the rings, you're in trouble lol!

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  • Karina
    Curious October 2019 Ontario
    Karina ·
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    Would rather forget my vows.

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  • Chelsea
    Master August 2017 Ontario
    Chelsea ·
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    Forget the vows! You guys will laugh, and everyone else will likely laugh along with you.

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