Wishing Well vs. Wedding Registry

That's great Kaytee! Let us know how it goes! A few brides can go shy to ask for money, I'm they'll love to hear what your experience with it will be like. Have your shared your website with your guests already or are you waiting to send out your invitations?

I think I will include it on our website and I like the one about the pots and pans.

That's great Kaytee! What's the note you chose to include? Will you include it on your website?

Wishing well for sure. I found the perfect note to include.

Yup! what she said ^^^

Its exactly what I'm doing!

Hey Sharon!

Honestly your best bet is to just not make a registry. People usually just give money if there's no registry (unless they were already determined to get you an actual gift, and in that case telling them wouldn't have changed anything anyways ). People are often offended at being ASKED for money, and don't like being told what to gift someone. You can tell your parents and the wedding party, that's what you'd prefer and then if a guest wants to ask someone if you're registered or what you want, they can just tell them and it won't feel like you are telling them what to get you. It's such a tricky situation, but I think that's the most tactful way of handling it

I prefer the wishing well. I just don't know how I should go about telling our guests about it...