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Joey
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Who plans the dates?

Joey, on June 23, 2018 at 14:05 Posted in Living together 0 14

In your relationship, who plans most of the dates? Who plans the best dates?

Who plans the dates? 1

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Latest activity by Kaisha, on August 5, 2018 at 01:01
  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    Our "dates" are either movies or supper, we go on a lot of outings but neither of us consider those dates. We quite often plan out outings together or he will just wing it.

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    We kind of plan dates together. If it's for a special occasion than he will probably do it.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Well I think he would say that he does but I would say I do. At the very least I come up with the date ideas and we equally chose which one to do and make happen. If it was only one of us then to me it would be as if the other one isn't making an effort. I've seen lots of relationships end because one person didn't put in the effort so I guess it's a good thing that we can't come to an agreement on who plans the most and plans the best!

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I think we both do and we have both planned some pretty great ones.


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  • Tyanna
    Super June 2019 British Columbia
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    Hahaha i feel like you literally just took words out of my mouth. This is me and my hubby 100%!
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    I plan the majority of the dates, but the ones FH plans are always really good Smiley smile

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Equally both of us depending where we say we are going on our day offs. Its nice just to jave that time out from the every day life.
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  • Feya
    Curious June 2019 Ontario
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    Both of us do, and id say all of our dates are pretty spectacular, though different. He enjoys taking me out to things while I enjoy nature walks and hiking and the like.
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    Amen! Hahah!
    We both plan dates but I do more of the larger planning dates over him who does a lot of the last minute let's go out or let's go do this tonight! It's sometimes hard for me since I love to know what I'm doing ahead of time and not wait for a "maybe" but it's been working out really well and the last minute surprises that just make my day are always a nice treat!
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  • Jocelyn
    Expert August 2018 Ontario
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    Me for the most part....but sometimes i'll tell him "surprise me"
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    Though we are very much homebodies, we take turn each month to plan a date within the city. It's a great way to explore the city and try new things!

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  • Emily
    Devoted November 2018 Ontario
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    We don't really plan. We just kind of go with the flow. Any dates that are planned though, have always been 100% me. I love him, his knack for detailed planning is not why I fell in love with him lol Smiley winking
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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    We share the planning.
    The best ones are the ones with serendipitous moments.
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    It's about half and half for us for planning. The best ones I find are unplanned and spontaneous though

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