Who plans the dates?

Our "dates" are either movies or supper, we go on a lot of outings but neither of us consider those dates. We quite often plan out outings together or he will just wing it.

We kind of plan dates together. If it's for a special occasion than he will probably do it.

Well I think he would say that he does but I would say I do. At the very least I come up with the date ideas and we equally chose which one to do and make happen. If it was only one of us then to me it would be as if the other one isn't making an effort. I've seen lots of relationships end because one person didn't put in the effort so I guess it's a good thing that we can't come to an agreement on who plans the most and plans the best!

I think we both do and we have both planned some pretty great ones.

View quoted message Hahaha i feel like you literally just took words out of my mouth. This is me and my hubby 100%!

I plan the majority of the dates, but the ones FH plans are always really good

Equally both of us depending where we say we are going on our day offs. Its nice just to jave that time out from the every day life.

Both of us do, and id say all of our dates are pretty spectacular, though different. He enjoys taking me out to things while I enjoy nature walks and hiking and the like.

View quoted message Amen! Hahah!
We both plan dates but I do more of the larger planning dates over him who does a lot of the last minute let's go out or let's go do this tonight! It's sometimes hard for me since I love to know what I'm doing ahead of time and not wait for a "maybe" but it's been working out really well and the last minute surprises that just make my day are always a nice treat!

Me for the most part....but sometimes i'll tell him "surprise me"

Though we are very much homebodies, we take turn each month to plan a date within the city. It's a great way to explore the city and try new things!

We don't really plan. We just kind of go with the flow. Any dates that are planned though, have always been 100% me. I love him, his knack for detailed planning is not why I fell in love with him lol

We share the planning.
The best ones are the ones with serendipitous moments.

It's about half and half for us for planning. The best ones I find are unplanned and spontaneous though