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Who paid for your bachelor or bachelorette parties?

Joey, on June 11, 2018 at 08:00 Posted in Before the wedding 0 23

One of the earliest and biggest conundrums you'll encounter when you’re planning a wedding is figuring out who pays for what. There are lots of different ways to divvy things up, so share your own perspective!

If you had a bachelor or bachelorette party who hosted and paid for it?

Who paid for your bachelor or bachelorette parties? 1

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Latest activity by Emily, on January 13, 2019 at 16:16
  • Emily
    Devoted February 2020 Ontario
    Emily ·
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    I think that both parties are going to be divided between those that attend.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    We have not done this yet.

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  • Megann
    Frequent user September 2018 New Brunswick
    Megann ·
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    Bachelorette parties arent me, so I’m not getting one THANK GOD!!!
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  • Tatiana
    Expert April 2018 Ontario
    Tatiana ·
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    No party for us

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  • Brette
    Beginner June 2019 British Columbia
    Brette ·
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    I recently went to a bachelor party (gay wedding) and we all chipped in and paid for the groom.

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  • Michelle
    Super September 2018 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    Unsure of this detail but I believe it will be my bridesmaids and those invited.

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
    Valérie ·
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    We'll be splitting it up between us girls. We are going to Palm Springs, so each of the girls will be paying for their flights/food/drinks and we'll divide the total for the hotel rooms. I'm considering making small swag bags, but don't want anything tacky.

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
    Vinod ·
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    No bachelor party for us.
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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Jessie ·
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    My MOH and friend and hoping my bridesmaid chip in.. only fair.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
    Erin ·
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    His friends paid for his and I am pretty sure that my mum and godmother paid for mine.

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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
    Alexandra ·
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    Everyone will be paying their own way. Likely though the groomsmen will want to cover his hotel.
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  • Marcia
    Super August 2018 Manitoba
    Marcia ·
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    My MOH's bridesmaids and friends will be paying for my bachelorette party!

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    I'm not at this point yet! I'm sure my sister (MOH) will be hosting it.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    There will be no bachelor or bachelorette parties.
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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
    Courtney ·
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    Everyone paid for their own portion, including myself.

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
    Brittany ·
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    It will be each pays for themselves, and I guess everyone pitches in for me? We haven't gotten that far in planning yet, all I know is I'm supposed to keep my nose out of it and just show up.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    It will probably be a pay-your-own-way thing. This is a long way from my mind still

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    Our wedding party or the guests. Neither of us planned them
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  • Jessica
    Super March 2018 Ontario
    Jessica ·
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    Our wedding parties paid for the parties. My fiance did his party in town, so there was very little cost involved, with the exception of drinks. Mine was out of town as all my wedding party were from different towns so we met in the middle, and the girls paid for the accommodations and drinks.

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  • Stefanie
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
    Stefanie ·
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    We havent decided on how we are going to handle the bachelor/bachelorette parties. We may end up doing a weekend getaway or something to a Muskoka cottage, in which case everyone will pay for themselves

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  • Sara
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
    Sara ·
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    Not entirely sure yet, hasn't been discussed in detail. I offered to pay for my portion of things if needed but I'm just not sure.

    My FH says that he doesn't want to pay for anything, so we'll see how that goes.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    My MOH aka my sister has already asked me what kind of party I want and that I will be paying for nothing! Free shots all night! To be fair - it doesn't take much so I will be a cheap date Smiley tongue

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  • Andie
    Expert May 2019 Ontario
    Andie ·
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    Our wedding party has already said that they will pay for our bachelorette and bachelor parties because we’ve not asked them to do anything else and they jumped at the chance to help us!
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