Who made the first steps?

He did he pretty much always takes the first steps

He messaged me first but I kissed him first during our first date

He has almost always taken the first steps in our relationship. He sent me a message first on POF, he suggested me meet, on our second meeting he started holding my hand and then later initiated our first kiss. He was also the first to tell me he loved me after we had been dating for 3 months on my Birthday.

I did accidently, I had started flirting with him just because I was having so much fun and I could talk to him like nothing. But he made the official first steps by sitting me down and talking to me about how he liked me.

He kinda started it there was a girl flirting with him hard-core so I told him to be careful cuz she has a boyfriend so he asked if I did

He made the first steps by getting to know each other.

I definitely did over text and making it obvious I liked him, but in person he did what I was too shy to do. He even said he loved me that night...