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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Who is more decisive?

Lynnie, on June 10, 2019 at 09:30 Posted in WeddingWire 0 25

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?

Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)?


Who is more decisive? 1

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25 Comments

Latest activity by Steph, on September 11, 2019 at 01:20
  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
    Steph ·
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    Me, but not by choice. He pushes it to me to make all the decisions so I have to or else decisions don't get made 🤦‍♀️😋
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  • Katelyn
    Super October 2019 Ontario
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    I'm absolutely a know what I want type and he is a go with the flow type.
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  • M
    Expert September 2019 Ontario
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    Historically I've been much more decisive. However, I've known FH a LONG time and he has matured a lot. He is much more decisive now and I think we are closely matched for decision making.
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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    Neither of us are super decisive by nature. I'm going to say him with general decisions, but me if it has to be an adaptable moment or last-minute thing.

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  • Mikaela
    Frequent user August 2019 New Brunswick
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    Depends on what it is.. if it's "where should we go/what should we have for dinner?" It's 100% him. If it's something I feel needs to be done ASAP, it's me. All other things are up for debate!
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Neither of us. We both kind of suck at making decisions sometimes.

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
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    He is. I need to mull things over and weigh my options. He just decides and rolls with the outcome.
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    I am the decisive one. He is not very good at making a decision right away.

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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
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    He is pretty decisive. He is a great planner and good at making choices. I tend to go back and forth between a lot of things.

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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
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    I am unless its deciding what to order when were out for a meal... then I'm the most indecisive person on the planet lol
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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    It depends about what! i would say we’re a super good balance when it comes to this!
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    It depends on the situation, sometimes it's me that's more decisive and sometimes it's him. It's a 50/50 split on who's more decisive.

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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
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    He usually is!

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    It really depends on the situation. We both like to see the pros/cons before making a decision, but I'm a bit faster to make those decisions than my FH.

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  • Madisyn
    Expert February 2020 Ontario
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    I like to educate myself enough to be able to make quick decisions, whereas FH will take months and years to decide on something!

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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    It depends on situation, I feel I am when comes to getting things done

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    He is for sure. No doubt at all!
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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    I think we both are depending on the subject matter.

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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    He is but I'm not super indecisive either. Only when it comes to important decisions do I hum and haw and weigh my options extensively.

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    For the most part I am the more decisive one

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    I am because its easier to say NO for the most part.

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    He is. I am very indecisive. I can never decided on what I want for dinner or what i want to do or anything like that.

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    He’s better. I do sometimes reconsider my decisions but not very often.
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  • Kathy
    Frequent user August 2019 Ontario
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    He is lol. I take forever to conclude something 😂
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    I can't make up my mind for the life of me - expect about marrying him Smiley tongue

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