Who is inviting more guests? You or Him?

We actually each have 60! I have more family and he has more friends coming !

That's really smart to leave a cushion to account for that!! Great idea! Also good to add a cushion/account for everyone being in a relationship, that way if someone starts dating before you it's invite time, you won't be caught off guard

He is but my family is bigger. I have been married before and this is his first wedding. So I invited the people that I am closer to.

I would say I am inviting more guests.

My list is bigger

I'm inviting way more people my family is huge... His is also large but he only likes one of his cousins, lol... Also it is home for me so my mom has talked me into inviting people, I might not have otherwise (to be fair to her, it is only 5 people)

My family is MUCH bigger, which is why I had to cut out the out of town family from my list. But even then, my family and family friends are double his family, and I have more friends on the list... whoops lol

Right now we are at 63 guests, 33 are his and 30 are mine. But what pushes up to 75 are all his random family members from Serbia / random family friends of his mom. Leaves me some flexibility for additional coworkers I get closer to over the next year as well.

I had more than double the amount of guests he had! He has a bigger family but I have more friends.

Me. I have a large family (dad's side, mums side and my stepdad side). Hes got his dad and his brother and his wife and kids. But he's got more friends. Hopefully it will work out kind of evenly

Definitely him... but his family is MUCH bigger