I'm definitely better at keeping secrets definitely. Although I have wanted to scream to the world about our wedding, I have had to tell him to stop telling people about all the details!
I'm going to say me... because he's terrible at lying or covering anything... so he can't get away with anything.
But I share just about everything with him... so we are really open.
In terms of surprises though... neither of us can keep our mouth shut. He almost gave away the engagement, and I ended up giving him a watch 4 months early because I couldn't wait for Christmas.
I'm a very open book and don't like secrets. Unless someone expressly says "Please don't tell anyone this" I don't really realize or think about it being a secret.
... i still tell my husband almost everything though. Unless someone says "please don't tell anyone this, INCLUDING him".. then I have to shut up.
This is hard... We both hate secrets. Recently we've both proved to be good at it, we kept a my pregnancy a secret for 3 months, even from family! And now we are keeping the baby's gender a secret and have for a month so far.. So this is definitely a tie!
We both are. If a friend tells me something that stays between the two of us, I wont tell anyone, not even my FH. If I tell him a secret about me, he would never tell a soul.
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I think both of us are really good in keeping secrets, except from each other.
He is better at keeping secrets, mostly because he enjoys surprising people. I'm bad at it simply because I never bother to have secrets in the first place hahaha
When it comes to important stuff though we are both good at keeping things to ourselves that are not our business to share. If someone confides in either my fiance or I, they can do so with confidence that their secret doesn't leave the room.
I am. When he was getting ready to propose I knew right away He thought it was a big surprise and that I had no idea but he dropped hints unintentionally all of the time.
Mmmm... probably him. We tell each other almost everything, so if someone tells one of us a secret, the other is almost guaranteed to find out too. But I like to tell more than just him. He’s pretty good at keeping secrets just between us.
I would say we are about equal on this. Of course it's hard to tell because we don't keep secrets from each other... Also take note - if you tell one of us something; that's as good as telling us both. He is my go to guy and I am his go to gal. Just like it should be. Unless it's a surprise party.