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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Who is better at keeping secrets? You or your fiancé(e)?

Lynnie, on July 23, 2018 at 09:05 Posted in WeddingWire 0 30

The competition is on this week! Time to tell us...

Who is better at keeping secrets? You or your fiancé(e)? Is one of you a total blabbermouth?


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Latest activity by Geneviève, on August 8, 2018 at 20:37
  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    We're both really good. Unless it involves presents, then we're both equally terrible!

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  • Jessie
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
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    He is! I can never keep a secret. He always figures it out before I get to surprise him!!

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  • Julia
    Frequent user June 2019 Alberta
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    I'm definitely better at keeping secrets definitely. Although I have wanted to scream to the world about our wedding, I have had to tell him to stop telling people about all the details!

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    He is for sure, I want to tell him everything be he has some self control.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina
    Lynnie ·
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    We are both pretty terrible! 🙊

    He's worse though! I've had to stop telling him about engagement or pregnancy news from our friends unless it's totally public knowledge!

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  • Casey
    Frequent user November 2018 Alberta
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    Him for sure
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  • Leanne
    Expert September 2018 Ontario
    Leanne ·
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    This is tough, but he is probably better at keeping secrets than I am.

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I think him since he was able to keep it a secret from me about proposing for months!!

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  • Genis
    Frequent user January 2019 Alberta
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    Him for sure

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    Hmmmm.
    He is.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Him? He was able to surprise me with a proposal after nearly 8 years, so that makes him better at the secret keeping!

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    I'm going to say me... because he's terrible at lying or covering anything... so he can't get away with anything.

    But I share just about everything with him... so we are really open.

    In terms of surprises though... neither of us can keep our mouth shut. He almost gave away the engagement, and I ended up giving him a watch 4 months early because I couldn't wait for Christmas.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    We both are and never say a word unless in the private conversation.
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  • Marcia
    Super August 2018 Manitoba
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    My FH forsure!

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  • Courtney
    Super July 2018 Ontario
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    Him.

    I'm a very open book and don't like secrets. Unless someone expressly says "Please don't tell anyone this" I don't really realize or think about it being a secret.

    ... i still tell my husband almost everything though. Unless someone says "please don't tell anyone this, INCLUDING him".. then I have to shut up.

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  • Holly
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    This is hard... We both hate secrets.
    Recently we've both proved to be good at it, we kept a my pregnancy a secret for 3 months, even from family! And now we are keeping the baby's gender a secret and have for a month so far..
    So this is definitely a tie!
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
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    Honestly he is a little better than I am. I don’t like keeping secrets if I can avoid it because I just want to tell the person so bad.
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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    He is probably better at this one.
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  • Valérie
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    I'll say him, because he has a tendency of NOT looping me in on ANYTHING. His family has to consistently remind him to tell me stuff.

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    We both can but probably him cuz he’ll most likely forget it! Haha
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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    We both are. If a friend tells me something that stays between the two of us, I wont tell anyone, not even my FH. If I tell him a secret about me, he would never tell a soul.

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  • M
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    Marina ·
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    I think both of us are really good in keeping secrets, except from each other.
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  • Shla
    Devoted October 2021 Ontario
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    I am. I have always been good at it. He tends to spill the beans within a few hours.
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  • S
    Frequent user January 2021 Alberta
    Sara ·
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    He is better at keeping secrets, mostly because he enjoys surprising people. I'm bad at it simply because I never bother to have secrets in the first place hahaha

    When it comes to important stuff though we are both good at keeping things to ourselves that are not our business to share. If someone confides in either my fiance or I, they can do so with confidence that their secret doesn't leave the room.

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  • S
    Frequent user October 2019 Ontario
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    I am. When he was getting ready to propose I knew right away He thought it was a big surprise and that I had no idea but he dropped hints unintentionally all of the time.
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  • Marie-Claire
    Devoted August 2018 Quebec
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    He most definitely is. He talks so little in general that it would take a lot to get him to reveal secrets.

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  • Brenda
    Curious July 2019 Ontario
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    I believe it's him... I talk too much sometimes

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  • Amanda
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    Mmmm... probably him. We tell each other almost everything, so if someone tells one of us a secret, the other is almost guaranteed to find out too. But I like to tell more than just him. He’s pretty good at keeping secrets just between us.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    I would say we are about equal on this. Of course it's hard to tell because we don't keep secrets from each other... Also take note - if you tell one of us something; that's as good as telling us both. He is my go to guy and I am his go to gal. Just like it should be. Unless it's a surprise party.

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  • Maya
    Expert January 2019 Alberta
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    I think we are both good at keeping secrets. Although I must say it’s really hard keeping the one I am now.
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