Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

Him. He just kinda came over one day and never left. 😂

It was a mutual agreement to be exclusive

It was a mutual thing

I defend us every time any doubt arises

It was me. We were dating for several months and I wanted to be exclusive, so I brought it up.

I did, with the help of my brother lol.. I sent out a snapchat when we were out for lunch one day and my brother asked me if he was my boyfriend and I have him a look and he nodded and says he was my boyfriend lol

I initiated it, but he was the first to say "I love you". We never really discussed it after that - we just "were".

He initiated it

It was a discussion we had together, but I think I was the one who initiated the conversation

He did. We were driving somewhere and his brother called, asking where he was, and he said, "I'm out with my girlfriend." And I was like, ME???? (And also yay)

We did, together.

He did after a couple weeks

I have on whole from the beginning. All the anger and temper went from 10 to 1 and to thunk before speaking. Overall, the rough path lead to a smoother road agreeing with all my decisions.

Me. We known each other from online dating. On the 5th date, I asked him if he wanted to go exclusive and see how it worked out or if he still wanted to meet other women. He told me since our first date, he had not been checking out other women's profiles. That made us official since. We both closed our profiles after one month.

That was me! We were exclusively seeing each other, we were not interested in anyone else. So one day I just texted him and said, if we aren't even seeing anyone else anyways why aren't we just boyfriend/girlfriend?? He said "you never asked, if you want that ask me?"so I did lol.

He did, which at the time was surprising!

My FH! We "got together" at work but were at that age where it's almost weird asking to be bf/gf?? It was almost 3 months of me yelling at my friends "IDK WHAT WE ARE" and then a 3 hour phone call with him one day and he formally asked me out!! I cried. It was wonderful!

He did. I remember the day quite well. He was taking things a little slower since I was his first relationship.

Hhhmmm. sort of mutual.

we were at a US thankgiving football game. tailgating before and after the game. after the game we came back to the bus. and he asked me if anything was going on with one of the guys at the event (it was a good friend of mine...who is just a major flirt. but NOTHING was happening). and I said. "well hes my friend...why are you jealous" and he said "sort of". and I told him he had the option to be exclusive but he hasn't yet. so make a decision.

He said. ok. lets date! hahahha

He did, we were on our 3rd date walking around the Science Centre when he just said "so I guess we can make this official" LOl

I was! It was a month and a half after we started dating. I wanted to make sure we were on the same page so I asked what we were and he said, "well, your my girlfriend so I'd say we were in a relationship?"

My fiancé did! Though he considered us dating “officially” before asking me to make it official, LOL.

He did! Picked me up from the airport after my birthday trip to Vegas - birthday gift in hand and made it official!

Him. He was at his parents lake one weekend, when he came home he thought “she could be with another guy, and I wouldn’t be able to be upset” so he said “I consider you my girlfriend and I want us to be together”. He only admitted this to me a few years ago about what he was thinking.

Me. I wanted it to be just the 2 of us with no dating anybody else basically after the 3rd date. It was all or nothing from the start.

Umm.. I think it was him?! I honestly can't remember.