What has gone wrong for your wedding or what do you fear can go wrong.

Wow that is an incredible story! Kudos to that bride!

We had a few things "go wrong" at the wedding but like everyone says, you do what you can and nothing can ruin your good mood.

1) My husband's brother/Best Man missed his flight because they forgot something at home and therefore he missed his bachelor party. He was his one and only groomsman and his brother and unfortunately they can never get that time back. It's going to take a long time to get past this because they didn't handle it properly and if you can't be there for us on the most important day of our lives, when can you? My BIL did have a talk with me before the wedding and apologized profusely so I was able to get past it for the wedding.

2) I realized halfway through the ceremony that I had forgotten my veil and whispered to my groom and he was like "are you ok?!" and I was like "yeah I'm great!" Luckily I had rented the veil so it wasn't a huge investment. My MOH went back up to the room and grabbed it after the ceremony so I could get a few pics with it. I'm actually glad that I didn't have it for the ceremony because they did such an amazing job with my hair and it would have blocked it.

3) Our videographer "couldn't find us" after the ceremony so he missed out on most of our photo session. This still bothers me but unfortunately you can't turn back time so I just need to move on. The videographer wasn't the most professional. He was packing up after the ceremony and we went off with the photographer and he said he couldn't find us but we had given him the contact info for our photographer so they could coordinate locations in advance and he had my husband's phone number so he could have called so I feel like they didn't try very hard. The quality of video we received was great, we just wish they hadn't missed out on so much footage.

4) We didn't find out until after the wedding but my aunt is a celiac and we made it very clear that we had guests with severe food allergies and told them where they would be sitting but some inexperienced server told my aunt that the food didn't have gluten in it when it did. Luckily she didn't eat much of it but she did get sick and then had to wait to get the correct food. I was so upset to learn this after the fact and made sure to let the venue know.

5) We had told the venue to pre-slice the sheet cake we had in the back so it would be ready to go when we cut the display cake but for some reason they didn't so it took forever for the cake to come out and no one knew when it actually came out so we had some people who missed out. We did our best but sometimes it's out of your control.

So these things are going to happen so you have to decide what you're going to let bother you and what you can let go! Regardless, it was the best day of our lives and every day we wish we could relive it again!

I am fearing rain (outdoor ceremony), desserts and flowers not making it (they are coming from where we live to where we're getting married) and that the kids start having a freak out/meltdown during our ceremony.

Can you just have designated people for speeches instead of cancelling them all? Maybe limit it to your BM, MOH and your parents.

My fear is that dj will suck , no will dance to songs and I spill something on my dress.

Those pics are amazing. Sorry to hear that you have to cancel speeches. Maybe you can just ask a few close people to make a toast. I fear that my photographer or DJ will come down with some illness and won't have a replacement. Have to check that out.