What do you worried the most about your wedding?

Biggest worry is how our famiy will behave, unfortunately we have some members who often have a few too may drinks and get out of control. we are trying our best to prevent this by having a csh bar instead of open bar, and will be sitting down with a few family members to remind them that it is our day so if the cant behave, dont come.

To be honest. I'm not worried about anything.

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!

I think I am most worried right now about guests not enjoying themselves on the day, not dancing or heck even showing up lol

I don't think you have anything to worry about! It will be a completely different story on your wedding day and he is going to love it! Has he seen any pictures of you in the dresses you tried? Guys don't really get how it all works until they actually see you all put together! I could have shown my dress to my husband before the wedding and explained what it was going to be like and he still would have had no clue and been surprised the day of!

And you've looked gorgeous in your dresses so I'm sure he's going to love it and be so happy he's marrying you! He'll see how happy the dress makes you feel and he'll feel like the luckiest guy in the world!

I'm worried that I won't get everything done in time or my grandparents will get upset that I'm not doing what they want for it!!

My worry is my youngest daughter makes it down safely that time of year and guests showing. We expect some issues bc of it being winter plus my FH is hoping his Dad is able to make it. Budget is so far ok but we are also putting $ away to help a few. That's us though.

I'm willing to bet anything you choose he will like on you - even if he wouldn't have picked it in a picture or on the rack!

Just because our styles are so different , when I show him a dress I like , he doesn't really like it, but when I show him something more on the plain side he prefers that, and I always feel like it's missing something ! He tells me to buy what I like and feel good in, and I will but it terrifies me that he won't like it!

Right now it's about going over budget which so far, we have been good about. The guests that choose to no show.

I am not able to follow my check list..., ant it's stressing me soooo much! And When I'm stress, i just stop doing everything... and im stress about having to cut some guests....

Ah!1- he'll be amazed - your styles are stunning! His jaw will drop no matter which you choose!
2- why would you say that? Way to give another thing to worry about

I'm worried about FMIL causing a scene and making other guests uncomfortable, putting a damper on the evening after we boot her. I worry I'll not include someone in somehing (without realizing it) and having them bitch about it for years (my mom STILL complains constantly about my brothers wedding 6 years ago!)I also worry I'll end up taking on a bit more than I can handle with all my projects and constantly think back wishing I was able to do X, Y, Z in time

I worried my FH won't like my dress choice and be disappointed when he sees me. I want to know it's the best choice he's ever made!

I'm not really worried about ceremony or reception, I've had a few hick ups in the planning process so now I have back up plans for the major vendors... I also realize things will go wrong day of, but for me the important part is the ceremony (being married to him) every thing else is gravy... I am a bit worried about flying across the country with my massive impractical dress.

I am worried about guests not showing up. I am worried about guests not dancing! The worst part of planning so far is the seating arrangement and it stresses me out all the time!

I was worried about having no shows! I had a friend who had 30 no shows at her wedding! Since ours was a destination wedding, we had a lower chance of people not coming who said they were but there were a few that we didn't find out right away that they weren't planning on coming (after they RSVP'd yes) and we were thinking "when were you planning on telling us?!" Luckily we only ended up with 2 no shows on the day of the wedding. On the flip side, I was worried about uninvited guests coming but we didn't have any of those thank god!

I was also worried about people not dancing and while the dance floor wasn't packed the entire night, we did have some songs that got everyone out and I still busted a move and danced like no one was watching haha!

I know most of our older crowd think it is a nice idea, and are pretty open, but there are a handful of people in particular that I know aren't going to care for the open bar, and might feel obligated to come, but won't dance the night away with us, and won't want to stay very late (the crowd that would leave a tradtional reception after the cake cutting)

We are not doing any tosses, or games just a first dance and cake cutting. I worry that they will travel all that way (about an hour) and be disappointed that the traditions are not included. BUT I don't want to include traditions that I am not comfortable with...So frustrating

Money the big concern that I try to just ignore!

The second part is so how I feel having a cocktail reception. I'm terrified the old and more traditional types will hate the whole experience.

I'm crazy worried that everyone will be miserable, not have fun and hate the whole experience.
Also, money. That worries me.

I am probably most worried that I won't get to decorate my venue the night before (I'm a control freak) ....we CAN but, only if there isn't an event booked. My Co-ordinator said it dones't happen often, but STILL!

I'm also worried that guests will not dance, or won't have a good time. I know some of our older guests might be expecting a more traditional reception, and might not enjoy the cocktail dance party. We are trying very hard to set clear expectations, and ensure there are lots of options available to those guests too.