When y'all do wedding rehearsal and well our wedding party is willing to help set up and well I wanna prepare a meal for them but do I also have to include their significant others in this or is it something I can ask for just them only. Personally I really don't wanna have to feed them then considering I'm having their families the next day for our wedding dinner. I dunno what to do. Any advice I'd appreciate.
Invite those who you want for the rehearsal dinner as you choose. The spouses or other half of the wedding party don't need to be present if you feel you don't want to make more to feed. Its your decision and your budget that is to be considered.
If you're just having the wedding party help set up you don't HAVE to extend the dinner invite to their partners, unless they're in from out of town or they are also helping - then I'd say, yes you should.
We are doing our wedding rehearsal the evening before the wedding. The rehearsal will be later in the afternoon after we finish setting up, so it will be just the wedding party plus parents and officiant. Our venue has a restaurant attached to it which is handling the catering for the wedding, so they also have a dedicated menu for a rehearsal dinner.
We're doing our rehearsal the morning before the wedding at 10am and we decided to opt out of a dinner in the evening since we have a coordinator setting up everything for us. That way everyone has a few evening to do whatever
In your case you could just include the people that are in your wedding party and the people setting everything up. It's up to you and your fiance really.