Wedding invitations Plus one and Rsvp's.

No need to worry girly. I used the knot for wedding rsvp. You can make households and groups for rsvp. Do that for the people who are allowed plus ones. So when the main person goes online it will saying guest 1 of 2. And if you are concerned about the older people just call them and rsvp for them. In terms of children did you mean they aren’t allowed? If so, again add that to the website and when you are finalizing rsvp list of you see any kids call that person and say this is a adult reception sorry.

Hi Karen! First things first, don't panic You have plenty of time to get all of your guests on the same page.

Valérie and Vinod had some really great suggestions. Be sure to make it clear on your wedding website who has a plus one and which (if any) children are invited to avoid any confusion with your guests.

If there are any older guests that you are worried about RSVPing, why not ask your parents or your SO's parents to give them a phone call to confirm their attendance. They may even like the personal touch of a phone call!

Your website can let guests know the email to send the reply to and home address should be left out. Plus 1s should be avoided due to the basis that other guests may decide to bring someone else besides the family. Singles may have partners you haven't met before to know them well to invite them.

For the elders, give them a friendly call or have your parents help out and to ask them to call you personally otherwise. Confirmation made to them right away and informed to you makes it easy.

No children allowed can be worded as an Adult evening on your website. That statement can be conveyed to other families when your parents talk to them/you get calls letting guests know directly.

Which website or tool are you using for RSVPs?

I wouldn't worry about the wording on the envelope, as most RSVP tools allows guests to do it for the whole family or couple, instead of having them search for their names one-by-one. Guests will be able to see whether their kids are invited or if they get a +1 or not.

You could also add a quick blurb on your website to let guests know if not everyone is getting a plus or if only certain kids are invited. Here's a great article with different ideas on how to word it ( https://theweddingplaybook.com/adults-only-wedding-wording/ ), which could be updated to fit your situation.

As for the older folks, I would simply add something, on your website, along the lines of : "If you have any problems or concerns with the RSVP tool, please call/email us at xxxxxx."

Hope this helps