Wedding guest drama..

Meant Amanda.

I agree with you Amabads! go for it!

I agree with Melissa on this one .. sorry this has become an issue for you

I agree - I would most defiitely sit down with both of them individually of course. Ask the troublemaker to please be on her best behaviour, that there is a zero tollerance for the day. And ask your other friend to please put aside her differences. If they are real friends at all they will respect your wishes. If they can`t put the petty BS aside, maybe they`re not such great friends.

I have a zero tolerance in set for my day ESP for my FMIL. I will not hesitate to ask ppl to leave if they choose to act like bratty children.

Why is there alwaaaaays wedding drama !? We also have some family drama that should be a little awkward at the wedding. I'm just hoping everyone can put aside their bs for one day.

Agree wholeheartedly!
Your troublemaker friend should certainly refrain from making trouble at your wedding!

Hi Amanda, I am sorry to hear this and hope everything works out for you. I agree with Melissa, Valerie and Lisa on this one. Your friends should be thinking about your special day and put aside their differences to make your day stress-free.

I agree with both ladies below! I would just add that I'm the type that wouldn't be friends with anyone who causes that type of drama. And people that talk about others have the capacity to talk about you!
That being said, both ladies should bring thinking about you on your day period. And if they still aren't ok with your suggestions about separating them, then you make it their decision if they choose to come or not.
And if they don't quite frankly I wouldn't be friends with either of them .
Good luck!

Thanks guys I'll try that for sure, the reason the one doesn't like the other is the one can be quite the trouble maker.

I agree with Melissa. Maybe just reassure your friend that you will sit them at different tables and they can just avoid each other. Try not to stress about it too much, they shouldn't be putting you in this situation to begin with

We have family on FH's side that aren't speaking and won't hear reason and have said that if we invite FH's grandparents then they won't come... we finally just told them, that's their decision and we'll be sad not to see them there if they still feel they cannot be in the same room but at different tables

I would tell your friend that it means a lot for her to be there- and for her to set aside her personal feelings for the 8 hours she would be at your wedding.

They don't have to speak to one another- I think it is reasonable to ask everyone to just act like grown ups.

ETA: I'm sorry this is a pain for you but your friend should not be doing this to you in the first place.