I am trying to remain optimistic. I postponed mine to May 2021. We don't even know what is going to happen yet next week so I do not want to make life miserable for myself by being negative. I am looking at other countries who had it worse than us and they are allowing events up to 500 people and sometimes 1,000 even without vaccines ( such as some cities in Germany). So I don't think we will be kept in lockdown until next year. Maybe some measures such as hand-washing, mask recommendation etc during early 2021 until some sort of vaccine is rolled out but November 2021 is very far away. They were saying that the virus will burn out in January 2022 , with no vaccine in sight. I am cautiously optimistic we will have a vaccine.
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That was exactly how I was feeling plus not wanting to put anybody at risk. I am also very hopeful for next year and in the case that things still aren’t great then it will just be what it is. I feel a lot of relief for making the call to postpone.
I'm so sorry that you have had to postpone but I'm very hopeful myself that next summer/fall will be a lot better than this year!
My fiance and I postponed our August 8 2020 wedding to August 7 2021 back in May and I'm so glad we did cause I would hate for most of our guests to miss out on our day because of travel restrictions and all these other restrictions for weddings and gatherings right now!