I knew after the first date I wanted to marry him! We met through my brother and my fiance gave me a ride to visit my brother's family 5 hours away. So, after 10 hours in the car, I didn't think much of it, even after he asked me for dinner. But, after that dinner, I knew!
I would definitely say my FH was love at first sight for me... I always joke that we were pushed into the relationship. We met at the university bar. Since it was literally so packed that we were being shoved into each other by other people trying to move around. After about the 5th time his "wing man" asked me who I thought I was, constantly bumping into him. Iwas so flustered because I didn't know who he was, but recognized him from the varsity football team, so obviously I was a little intimidated. It ended up sparking a conversation that resulted in us talking for 4 hours outside the bar before he asked me for my number. The next morning I texted my mom telling her I found the guy I was going to marry. Everyone thought I was talking nonsense.. But, here we are 5 years later planning our wedding
We worked together for over a year, but only saw each other for about an hour and a half every morning (he worked nights). Finally, when the place closed down, we decided to connect and went on our first date a week later!
I don’t know that it was at first sight but it was definitely very soon into dating. I enjoyed talking to him he’s sooo great to talk to he’s actually one of those guys that can talk on the phone to his friends forever lol and when he took me to his parents 25th anniversary on our 4th date I think we were both “hooked”
Nope! We actually met for the first time at an event when we were 20, and I just remember thinking that it was funny that he and his brother were respectively studying in the same field as me and in the field I'd just left (I met them at the same time). We lived in different cities at the time, so we saw each other about once a year for the next few years, and I didn't know what to make of him since he talked so little.
The first time I thought he was interesting (I actually remember thinking that he would fit right in my family) was at a camp in 2015, but we still didn't see other much until a year later. After that, we started hanging out fairly regularly with a group of friends and became friends ourselves.
I know that he was interested in me quite early, because apparently I'm part of the reason he started hanging out with us. I'm not sure exactly when I started really liking him, but I needed to actually get to know him before.
I totally thought he was out of my league and super cute the first time we met. I was leaving for vacation the next day so we couldn't really start things right away. I thought about it during my vacation and went back to where he worked (which was the only place I had ever seen him before) and I was lucky that he was working and came over to talk to me. Soon after that we went on our first date and 6 years later we are still together and happily married I knew pretty early on that I loved him but I was scared to say it too soon!
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I’m so glad you found someone who treats you right! No one deserves abuse.
I wouldn’t say “love” but “smitten” for sure!! My ex was verbally/mentally abusive, so I was very reserved and didn’t want anything to do with anyone. When we first met, I was caught off guard and wanted to know his story
We were best friends for about 3.5 years. He was interested in more than that before, but I thought I wasn't. We were class mates and both had our internships abroad and then I shockingly realized that I missed him like crazy so love at first going apart or something :')? (I luckily had a friend who was going to the place he was for one weekend so I visited him and we've been together ever since)
Should have maybe noticed something before tho since we were together every day and texting if we weren't.
My fiancé literally told me I “Wasn’t his type” when I first asked him out lol. We got along though so we went out as friends a couple times and he turned around in the car and said to me “I want to change my mind and take you out on a real date”
Not love at first sight, I personally don't think that's real. I was instantly attracted to him and knew I wanted to get to know him. I wasn't sure where it would go but I wanted to find out. For me I think I realized I love him while I was in England visiting family and I realized how much I missed him, that was about 2 months in. He says he knew he wanted to marry me 2 weeks in.
Not even close. He was the new kid in my grade 9 class. I saw him at lunch so I went over and introduced myself. We started dating 3 months later, but I was only 14. You don’t know what love is at 14. I think we learned what love was by growing up together and going through over 10 years of life with the other by our side. I remember when I did realize that he was the one I was going to marry, but it definitely wasn’t right off the get go!
I was attracted to him from the moment I saw him, and knew he was something special. He was in the tail end of a relationship at the time, but he says he also knew I was someone he wanted to date right off the bat. I made him wait 5 months after his relationship officially ended before I agreed to date him though!