Walking down the aisle

I wouldn't go as far as forcing him. If he still feels this way next year I will replace him with someone meaning full in my life.

You cant force him... but i would get my uncle to do it! or if you have a step dad!

Its terrible to hear your father doesn't feel the way you want him to walk you down the aisle looking good in a tux or suit. Family may ask though you can still walk alone and say it was the way you wanted to do it. It harsh enough to not having him by your side on your day when you want it your way.

sometimes the plans need to be altered around situations unexpectedly. I do hope he comes to the right decision to rent a tux and be the dad to walk you down.

Thank you Kelsie.

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. It's one day and wearing a suit really is a small sacrifice to attend your daughter's wedding. If it's a money issue then he can borrow a suit/ wear one he already has. He should be an adult and be able to handle being in the same room as your mother. He is being very selfish and I agree with Becky that you should tell him that outright. My step-dad frequently says he won't be able to deal with being in the same room as his ex if his daughter gets married and my mom always says "you can and you will. The wedding is not about you, it's about your daughter and you can be an adult and put differences aside and be civil for one day for her."

At the end of the day it's not you disappointing anyone if he doesn't walk you down the aisle or attend, it's him. This is all on him.

I am sorry to hear he is acting like a child considering how old he would be! Its a wedding- tell him he needs to rent a suit or wear one he has that would be appropriate. This is about you and he shouldn't care if your mom will be there which why wouldn't she be? I would just tell him straight - dad wear a suit either buy or rent or borrow one for the day, its my day and you should be there to walk me down the isle, if you can't put your differences aside for one day with mom for me then your being selfish. He needs to hear it.