Un-even wedding party

Hey Jodi, I do not think there is anything wrong with having uneven bridal parties. I will also have 2 people, while my fiancé will have 3 or 4.

We’re doing uneven too 😊 I’m having 7 and he’s having 5, I couldn’t imagine cutting any of the girls and didn’t want him to add guys just for the sake of evenness. All that matters to me is the people that mean the most to us will be up there with us!

I have one more groomsmen than bridesmaids. I'm not going to have them walk in the church together . I might have them walk out together and the one groomsmen will walk with his kids ( flower girl, ring bearer ) I might do this to walk into the hall as well. Or I might get all the ladies to walk in at once then all the men

I don't think so a friend of mine is doing 5-7

Nothing wrong with that at all

I'm thinking ours will be uneven too, but how much is too uneven, right now tentatively I'm thinking 4-3 but would 5-3 be too noticeable?

Definitely nothing wrong with having an uneven number. It comes down to whoever you want most standing beside you and if that means one of you has more that's perfectly alright! An uneven number looks equally good in pictures too when they alternate in a row.

Do what you want...
We had 4 ladies & 3 guys plus ourselves. It worked out fine. Your photographer should be able to make it work with unique photos that you shouldn't even realize the numbers are uneven! Have the people that are important to you in your party - don't add someone just to make it even.

Juat do what you want! no need to stress, send one of his guys with two of yours!

We have quite a large wedding party, but it's also uneven! We have 7 groomsmen and 6 bridesmaids. I really didn't want my fiancé to miss out on having someone who means a lot to him in the wedding party just to make numbers even... but I also wasn't going to ask someone I wasn't that close with just to add another person on my side. One lucky bridesmaid will just walk with two handsome groomsmen!

I agree with everyone to keep it uneven. Originally we had an uneven wedding party. My husband only had 2 on his side and I had 4, but he found some new friends who became like brothers to him and so it was then even. However we were perfectly okay with it being uneven and I believe you should only have people in the wedding party whom you are close with!

Keep it uneven. Don't try to search your brain and find someone else. We had an uneven wedding party and it was fine.

View quoted message Totally! Lots of different options We will be sending all 4 groomsmen, then the groom with his mom then my 5 bridesmaids, then me with both my parents.
But ive also been to weddings where they have alternated groomsman, bridesmaid, groomsman bridesmaid and i really liked it! Might swap over to this... To be determined haha.

Uneven is a-ok. There’s no rule on having even numbers and it’s only a one person difference so not even noticeable.

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I like the single file idea! I personally felt uber awkward as a bridesmaid walking down the isle with a stranger.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with uneven wedding parties!

Keep it uneven! There will be nothing worse than asking somebody who he doesnt really want there to be there just for the sake of numbers. Its quite common nowadays to have uneven numbers... I will have 5 bridesmaids and my fh will have 4 groomsmen. We have our wedding party walking down the aisle single file so nobody will even notice the uneven numbers

I don't think it's a big deal if it's uneven. You shouldn't feel obligated to put someone in your party just to be even, it should just be for close friends and family in my opinion.
I would picture the groomsman and best man each linking up with a bridesmaid and walking in pairs down the aisle followed by your MOH