Torn between 2 ballgowns!

You look stunning in both! I am leaning towards the second!

Your a beautiful bride in both. I personally love the second one.

I found those cute little straps itched so bad after 20 min or less. As a bigger busted girl i am going with a corset back and no bra and i have beautiful support. I agree with others if this isnt an option(most seamstresses can-add this.) Go with clear straps on a bra. I love the first on you! Go with the one you didnt want to get out of!

I have had brides and consultants warn me that the off the shoulder straps can chafe something awful, and start to feel pretty constricting... that being said both of these gowns are simply stunning!!!

First of all, congratulations!
You are such a beautiful bride! Both of these options look absolutely magical on you, and the second is the winner in my opinion. There is just something extra whimsical and elegant about it!

They are both soo gorgeous ! Its a hard tie- I love the first but second is a step up. They both look amazing. I would choose the one you would be more comfortable in, the one your more likely to be able to go the washroom in, the one you can sit in and eat comfortably.

I love the second one! theyre both super nice but i feel like the first one is too low cut for my family LOL!!

LOVE the second one!!!! Its so romantic looking!!!

Do you feel like a bride in both? Which one can you picture yourself walking down the aisle in? Saying "I do"?

Personally I like the 2nd one more (although many girls have different taste), and would actually think it would give more support. I see it's clipped in as it's too big on you but when it's your size it should fit you like a glove which would keep the girls in (I would think).

Both are beautiful, but I especially like the first one. It is amazing!
As for support, do they already have cups sewn in? If not, a seamstress could add those easily. That would add some support.

View quoted message If it's not TMI what is your bra size because cups don't actually offer any support whatsoever. They are mostly added to make sure there isn't a gap between you and the dress (for smaller chested ladies.) And any type of sticky bra isn't meant for anyone with more than a B cup. I don't mind sharing a picture but my mom bought me a sticky bra absolutely sure it would work (I didn't have high hopes) and because I have excess skin on my breasts it just crumples up my skin and looks awful and again there is really zero support offered.

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The consultant at the dress shop yesterday told me about NU bras and that it would probably be the best for Option 1, or the seamstress can add cups so I wont have to wear a bra anymore. I'm not really sure yet on how that's supposed to work. Thanks a lot for your insight about clear straps and converters! I certainly didn't think about that!

View quoted message Yeah best case would be clear straps and then a low back bra converter but let me tell you both clear straps and those converters are so uncomfortable. I was planning on doing that for my dress but when I did a trial for our dance with my dance instructor I spent about 4 hours total in my day of bra and it was killing me by the time I got home. So I'm going to settle for just nude straps, with the way the lace is on mine, no one is even going to notice.

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Thanks so much! Good point!

Both are really nice but I think I like the first one just a little more.

Both of these are super gorgeous and look amazing on you!!
I think the first one would be best! You don’t have to worry about it falling down throughout the night!

You look incredible in both of those, but that second one really has that "wow" factor

They’re both STUNNING! i love them both, but the skirt on the second one is breathtaking.

Wow both gorgeous. The second one is better in my opinion. Just so magical. The first one also concerns me because you simply couldn't wear a bra with it without part of your bra showing.

Wow they're both gorgeous but I LOOOVE #1. It's so soft and romantic and I love the neckline and low back. Also I've heard that dresses get heavier throughout the day of wearing them, so if the second feels like there's less support after a few minutes of wearing it, I'd imagine that feeling would be exaggerated after 8 hours. Unless it could be altered to have more support.