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Melissa
Frequent user November 2019 Ontario

Too many flower girls and ring bearers?

Melissa, on February 16, 2018 at 11:58 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 14
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I have a slight concern; I have 2 nieces and 3 nephews. I would like to use all of them as how would I possibly choose between them. Is that too excessive? I just love all of them so much, I want them all to be apart of it. I was thinking of having them as "ring security". Thoughts?

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Latest activity by Melissa, on March 1, 2018 at 12:41
  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    Thank you Sidni! I'm going to have them walk down together so the ceremony doesn't take too long!

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  • Sidni
    Frequent user July 2018 Saskatchewan
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    I totally understand! And in my opinion, you can never have too many! You should have anyone in your wedding that you want, putting a limit on it because of other people or what has been done in the past is silly. We are having 4 flower girls and 1 ring bearer. My FH's older sister has twin girls and their older brother is our ring bearer. I have 2 cousins that are very similar in age to the twins that I am close to. We wanted all of them to be a part of the wedding. It just made sense and they are so excited to be in the wedding together. They are all ages 6-8 so it is perfect for the flower girl and ring bearer jobs too.
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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    HAHAHA amazing! I will have two for you, and three is my favourite number so if anyone judges, that'll be how I justify it Smiley winking Thank you!

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  • Brittany
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    Never pick between them!!! Who's going to judge you? And if they do, do you really care? It's your big day!! And they are probably so cute!

    I'm having an adults only wedding, so I won't have either... so have an extra 2 for me Smiley winking haha

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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    Thanks Erin! Didn't think the feedback would be so positive! Definitely moving forward with it!

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  • Melissa
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    Thanks Vinod, I think i'm going to move forward with all of my nieces and nephews!

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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    I know the feeling Liz! They are all too adorable and hold a special place in my heart. I wouldn't be able to pick two out of the bunch!

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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    Thanks Lynnie, that's a great idea!


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  • Melissa
    Frequent user November 2019 Ontario
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    Aww I love that idea Stephanie. Thank you for sharing!

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  • Erin
    Master September 2017 Ontario
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    I think it will be super cute!

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  • Vinod
    Featured August 2017 Ontario
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    Go for it as there is no number to stop how many kids in the party.

    I would have had 7 kids originally. 4 only at the end. 3 kids and MOHs daughter 18 age.

    They were split by 2 inbetween the MOHs and Best Men.
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  • L
    Newbie September 2018 British Columbia
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    I say go for it as well.

    We have 2 nieces and 7 nephews. 6 nephews are walking together like a security. 1 of my niece is a little bride and she will be walking with 1 of my youngest nephew. 1 niece is our ring maiden. We just love them all and we can't pick which one should be what so they are all included Smiley xd Smiley smile Smiley love

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina
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    I say go for it! You can send them down the aisle in pairs or groups as well so it doesn’t make the processional too long!
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    Similar situation. We have 1 niece and 4 nephews. We are doing 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer, 2 ring security who will follow ring bearer wearing sunglasses and an earpiece (similar to the picture) and 1 sign carrier (here comes the bride sign)

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