Please tell me your opinion. I need to order my BM a personalized robe (I asked her months after the others so when I did the first order, she wasn’t included). FYI - our relationship kinda blossomed in the last few months so it felt right to ask her!
Anyways, my dilemma- she’s a size 12. The robes are SOLD OUT and out of stock for a size M/L which would fit her perfectly.
o I either buy a S/M and have it a bit too tight (fits up to a size 10) OR
i buy her L/XL and have it oversized - but this will fit up to a size 20.
I don’t want to insult her because like most of us, she has body image issues. I don’t want her to think I view her bigger than she is.
Ive contacted the company and they won’t have her size in by the wedding. The robes are personalized so I can’t swap sizes with someone else either. The robes are a surprise so I don’t want to ask her opinion.
So that being said, what would you prefer? A robe too big or a robe too small?
I thought going S/M but my fiancé said order bigger and at least she will wear it again? He’s a guy though and doesn’t understand body dysmorphia.