Hey everyone. Was looking for a bit of perspective on BMs testing out hairstyles leading up to the wedding. Personally I never use heat on my hair because it is prone to damage and I keep it very long so it would take years to repair, but would be happy to use heat once for my friend's wedding.
(Edited) She has asked for a hairstyle that will require a curler and flat iron which I will also do for the one day., but to be honest I am very anxious about repeated heat damage as I was bullied quite brutally for frizzy hair growing up and still have a hard time coping.
IMPORTANT EDIT: I haven't told her about my worries about heat damage yet because I know she'll say it's fine even if she's disappointed, so I'd just like to guage how big of a request it might be to opt out of heat-based trials pre-wedding. I don't want to be unreasonable especially since I am her MOH and I want their day to be perfect, but am wondering if it might be reasonable to instead just ask to do it for the wedding instead of using heat so many times.