We are having a surprise wedding under the guise of a pre-wedding get together. We are hoping to fly down my partner's son and girlfriend, so we figured an everybody-meet-everybody party is the best way to do it!
I did want to know if I should do up a formal invite, or just send out an evite style invitation? I worry if it is paper, that would seem too wedding-y, especially with how few people we are inviting (less than 20)
Thoughts? My partner has pretty much said whatever I want to do is fine with him (he's not really that indifferent about things... he has opinions on things we need to pick out, decor, etc. he just genuinely wants me to be happy about our wedding day!)
