I'm having a bit of an issue and have been for a while, and for some reason it only dawned on me that this is probably one of the best ways to get unbias opinions!
Both my parents are divorced, and remarried. I have a great relationship with my step mom, I consider her a second mom to me, however is the complete opposite for my stepdad. The day before I got engaged my stepdad and I got into a fight about something really stupid, instead of spending the night at their house we decided to leave and stay in a motel. A week later my mom called me and told me I need to apologize and if I didn't both him and her will not be attending my wedding. Now this whole situation eventually did get resolved however I am still hurt by this. Him and my mom ignored me for about 2 months, and in that time I arranged plans to visit my dad and stepmom in Kentucky to go dress shopping (this upcoming February). But now that we are all on a better page with eachother I think my mom expects me to include my stepdad in the wedding as a father role in some way. Both me and my fiance have agreed to allow him to attend but he will just be a guest. I don't want to hurt my mom because my stepmom will be a mother of the bride and she's going dress shopping with me.
Has anyone dealt with something like this? Any advice on how to deal with a possibly awkward and upsetting conversation with my mom?