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Joey
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Secret or Sharing? - Your first dance song

Joey, on June 3, 2019 at 08:28 Posted in Wedding reception 0 27
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Have you been asked about "your song" yet? When people get curious about your first dance do you share what song you've chosen, or are you trying to keep it a surprise for the big moment?

Is your first dance song a secret or are you sharing it?

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Latest activity by Beatriz, on February 11, 2020 at 20:22
  • Beatriz
    Frequent user September 2020 Ontario
    Beatriz ·
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    So i did share it with my sister but asked her not to tell. The song was picked by my FH and made me cry the first time I heard it, so I'm keeping it secret for now Smiley smile

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  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
    Amelia ·
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    We're going to keep it a secret. Mostly so my mom doesn't wrinkle her nose at a less traditional song.
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  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
    Steph ·
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    That will be a secret, once we find it lol
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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya ·
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    Only the weddingwire community knows!

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  • Allison
    Frequent user June 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Secret - Only a couple people know including my maid of honour.

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  • Candace
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    Candace ·
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    We told people if they asked but anyone who didn't ask we didn't share it with.

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  • Amanda
    Newbie December 2019 Ontario
    Amanda ·
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    It’s a secret, but it was one of the first things we decided on.
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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    Secret! we still need to figure it out ourselfs haha

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
    Kaisha ·
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    We literally chose it 3 days before, we asked everyone for there opinions.

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
    Bianca ·
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    It's a secret since we don't have one yet lol.

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
    Chelsea ·
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    I’ve told a few people, only people who are in the wedding though. it’ll be a secret for everyone else
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  • Alexandra
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    Alexandra ·
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    Sort of secretive. Very few people actually know!
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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
    Kim ·
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    We didnt have a first dance so nothing to share.
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    Secret! Not a soul will know besides me and FH.

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  • Mandy
    Devoted July 2019 Alberta
    Mandy ·
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    Secret didn’t want anyone to know
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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    That is always a secret for every couple I imagine to know and the guests to wait to hear the song.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Allison ·
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    Since even we don't know the song yet, it's definitely a secret - we'll likely keep it that way when we do pick a song!

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    No one asked but I would’ve shared. And I did share it on here in some related discussions!
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Secret except for our parents.
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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    I've told my mom and we told my FSIL because we wanted to make sure we both weren't planning on having the same wedding song (her wedding was this past Friday). Other than that we're keeping it a secret.

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  • Jenna
    Frequent user February 2021 Nova Scotia
    Jenna ·
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    No one has asked me this but I think it’s better a secret Smiley smile
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  • Holly
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    Holly ·
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    Not many people asked but those who did we told them.
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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
    Robyn ·
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    Hate when people ask about this. Unfortunately my FH started telling people who asked so it's not quite a surprise.
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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
    Seleena ·
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    I'm not having a first dance Smiley smile

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  • Valérie
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    Valérie ·
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    Surprisingly, this isn't something that our friends/family have asked us. So we haven't really told anyone.

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
    Casey ·
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    Keeping it a secret. We are the only ones who know it right now. No one has really asked us what we are using. I think if people ask I will just tell them we don't know yet,I like the idea of keeping that a secret!

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    It's a secret to even us! lol We haven't picked a song yet but I can't see us sharing that with people until our first dance. Not like people ask "what is your first dance song?".

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