Good evening. My girlfriend (ex-fiance) called it off last February after a very heated discussion/argument and I moved out. It was a mutual decision and we were reasonable with each other. There were no real ill feelings other than disappointment that we allowed ourselves to get to where we were. We sold her wedding set, which was beautiful and we split the money.
Fast forward a few months, during Covid, we realized the mistake that we had made and started dating again. Slowly at first to see if we could go backwards and start over, well we have and its better than it was a few years ago when we first fell in love with each other.
We spoke about this just last weekend and I we talked about how much she misses her ring.
My question is, I am going to buy her another engagement ring and propose again. Her first ring was purchased at a antique shop and I told her maybe it had bad Karma, regardless, should I try to purchase a ring that is very similar to her other one, or should it be totally different, even though she loved the other one?
One thought is she did love the other ring and if a new ring looked the same but was only hers it might be nice, but on the other hand, does a similar ring bring up the bad parts of our relationship that broke us apart.
Should this new, rekindled love have its own new ring as well?
Please be honest with your replies.
Thank you.
