Hello everyone.
My wedding is some time next year and I sent my work colleagues save the date to ensure they have enough time to book time off etc.
I sent it to 4 girls I'm most closest to. I then (at the time) felt bad and sent it to others. My work place is toxic. People discuss each others life issues all the time and make horrible comments behind each others back. One includes a colleague slating another colleagues wedding.
I sent save the dates to these people stupidly. I now really regret it and feel miserable about my wedding already, knowing there will potentially be individuals there not wishing the best for me.
I am sure that not all of them will be able to attend due to staffing issues, but I am scared some will. I don't know what to do and honestly feel like crying because of the stupid mistake I have made.
I would honestly appreciate any advice that help me out of this mess. I was contemplating telling them we have had to decrease the amount of people invited due to capacity issues but I have been told this is not ideal.
Help