Rant time

On the other side of the problem, I am having a hard time finding people to talk to and get ideas about my wedding from...

Many opinions will come your way for the wedding and how they perceive to make it better. The best way I looked at these situations is by saying if you wish to pay for the vendor, I will forward the information to you. The person will be quiet once they have no response to this answer. You will find creative ways to make others stay out of it by coming up with answers they can't question or say anything more about the wedding. The other way I did give the answer was by saying if I tell you, you will be served on a silver platter. This worked too since they would not want to know more about your details or information about what your planning.

Your FHs groomsmen should get a move on with their suit fitting if they want to get serious and get the push by the groom itself to go with them making an appointment.

Listening to the opinions of others almost made my fiancé and I have a 35,000 wedding. After a 10 month hiatus on thinking or speaking about a wedding, we decided to to a micro wedding in Banff. Everything is already booked and I don't talk to it about family because I do not want to listen to what they think should happen. I am so sorry you are going through this as it must not be easy. If I were you, I would put certain people on Do not Disturb so they can't be bothering you anymore and when you do need to speak to them, then you can turn it off.

View quoted message I don't even have to talk, people just start pushing there way in. Our groomsmen left their shirts for last minute and now have to travel to another province to get them because for shipping it wasn't a guarantee they would make it!! And it like really annoys me because I'm like a super organized person. I've had my aunt who has only compared and talked about her freaking wedding that I really don't give a hoot about 🙄 then she goes on to bring up my previous marriage from many years ago. I like wanna go hide in a gopher hole with my kids and come out when it's safe 😬

Yes lol. I’m now to the point where I just want it to be my wedding day already. 45 more days and I don’t have opinions from others but I just don’t want anything to pop up!
Every single one of our groomsmen is missing one to two items of their attire that they still need to go pick up from Moore’s. I understand they all have lives and families and work but I’ve literally have them notice since March. So ya it’s stressing me out 😬😬 I just reminded them again yesterday. I swear I have to remind them every two weeks.

As for opinions from others that you don’t want. I just don’t talk to family and friends about things I don’t want their opinions on. My grandma was adamant on me having a registry when we didn’t need one because we’ve been living together for 5 years and have a 2 year old. We don’t need anything. So I just don’t talk to her about the Registry and then I don’t get any opinions. And we Are doing what we want because it’s our day!
Just say thanks for your suggestion we will keep that in mind. then do what you guys want. You have to set boundaries or people will walk all over you