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Crystal
Newbie April 2019 Ontario

Procession

Crystal, on April 25, 2018 at 08:09 Posted in Wedding ceremony 0 7
So we are having a very small intimate wedding
this will be my second wedding and his first
we plan to do a first look
We have no wedding party (just witnesses that will not stand with us but come up when necessary) and our 3 kids will be part of the wedding but I am having a difficult time deciding how to enter/walk down the aisle
I feel like my dad already did it once the wedding is so small and not traditional
mall my spouse care about is that I show up - ha ha
we will be doing a first look together before the ceremony
would it be weird if we entreated together?
any other suggestions for a processional with 3 kids (aged 13, 11, 7) the two girls are very excited to be a part of the wedding (13 and 7) and my middle boy has very little interest in participating
advice or suggestions would be appreciated

7 Comments

Latest activity by Emily, on April 29, 2018 at 09:41
  • Emily
    Devoted November 2018 Ontario
    Emily ·
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    I think the entrance together is beautiful! My FH and are doing a first look and coming in together, and completely skipping the "give-away," because honestly, I'm not a trophy or a piece of property to give away. You are obviously an independent woman, who does not belong to your father, so why should he give you away? Smiley smile

    We have no Bridal party either, like you, just witnesses, so having a huge procession of people doesn't make too much sense. Maybe have your witnesses walk down, then your parents, then your children, then the two of you. I also think having your children all walk down together before the two of you would be really meaningful and super sweet. I would absolutely melt if I saw that as a guest!

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    You can walk down together or with your kids. Either way works best for you.
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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2018 Alberta
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    You could always walk with your son and your fiancé could walk with your daughters? I think it would be fine to walk out together too! I agree with the ladies, do what makes you both happiest!
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  • Jen
    VIP June 2018 Ontario
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    This is also my second wedding and will be walking myself down.

    I think it would be super sweet if the two of you walk down together!


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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    I think it would be sweet if you two were to enter together! Do what makes you happy Smiley smile

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
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    Honestly, you can do whatever you want! Make sure your FH and father are okay with it, though. Maybe your dad wants to walk you down the aisle again. I think the two of you coming in together would be super cute, though!
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    I think with a small wedding and no party it would be fine to go down the isle together!

    Maybe you can have both side's parents walk down the isle too?

    I would do...

    Middle boy down first (get him down and sitting quick since he's not as interested)

    2 Girls walk down

    His parents walk down together

    Youre parents walk down together

    Bride and Groom walk down together

    Since there's no one waiting at the front for you (except people doing the ceremony) I think you 2 walking up together at the end and standing in front of the alter would be perfect!

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