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Meena
Newbie July 2021 Ontario

Postponing from 2021 to 2022 and getting a court marriage?

Meena, on January 15, 2021 at 17:35 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 3

Hi everyone!

We got engaged in Nov 2020 and we were planning on getting married in the summer of 2021. Now after seeing what our wedding might look like in 2021 (no dancing, a limited number of people, vulnerable older guests who still might not be vaccinated, etc.) we are considering getting a court marriage and postponing a wedding until next year. The reason why we would get a court marriage is because our families are quite traditional and to avoid a lot of drama, we would do it to live with each other and potentially even start a family. I am almost 35 and don't really want to wait another year to start trying for a child.

Has anyone done this? Feelings about it? Did the excitement go away since you're already married?

Apologies if there's a similar discussion already!

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Latest activity by Vinod, on January 24, 2021 at 13:44
  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Postponing may be your choice to make your guests feel comfortable knowing they are being safe to travel and health wise for themselves. A intimate wedding with the family present may be best to make things easier and have your celebration held for later time with everyone present. Consider a Vow Renewal without an officiant, yet a family member saying the same as you got married and putting rings on again.

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  • Meena
    Newbie July 2021 Ontario
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    Thanks Hank, and yes we were considering either court or civil. I don't think we'll plan to get married by the summer anyway so hopefully the restrictions will be a bit better.

    I can't imagine how planning everything and having vendors booked with the uncertainty of this year is affecting you guys! Good luck!!

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  • Hank
    Featured September 2021 Ontario
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    I feel for you, Meena. By court marriage, I'm guessing you mean a wedding in a Civic Centre. Just so you're aware, all Civic Centres in Toronto are closed for weddings. City Hall's wedding chamber is open for appointments but you can only have your two witnesses attend and no one else. They'll also have to be masked. So if you wanted your family, or even at the very least your parents to attend, they wouldn't be able to.

    You can still have a civil wedding ceremony without being inside a civic centre. By July, it'll be warm enough that you can do it outside. You just need to hire an officiant and have them come to you. Gathering limits will depend on what the situation is like then and where you go but whatever option you choose will likely allow more than just two other people max for City Hall.

    As for postponing the reception, we'll be doing that if the majority of the population has not received their vaccinations by our date. Even if government allows it, there's still a risk (and the past few months have shown us government will allow certain activities not for the benefit of health but for their own personal interests).

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