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Lynnie
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Plated or Buffet?

Lynnie, on July 22, 2019 at 07:05 Posted in Wedding reception 0 29

Will you have plated dinner service, or a buffet? What's your serving style??


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Photo from Shangri-La Hotel Vancouver


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Photo from Quality Hotel & Conference Centre in Abbotsford, BC




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Latest activity by Steph, on September 17, 2019 at 12:01
  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
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    Our venue does everything plated
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  • A
    Devoted July 2023 British Columbia
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    We will be going with a plated dinner service.

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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    Mainly buffet, but the venue is going to plate a few things for those with allergies to remove the worry of cross-contamination!

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  • Kelly
    Devoted May 2020 Ontario
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    Played! I’m a nurse and think about the germs! Buffets, donut walls you name it! Gross! You don’t know where people’s hands have been or what bugs they are carrying
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  • Miav
    Devoted September 2020 Alberta
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    Leaning towards buffet for our wedding. More food options for everyone!

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  • Melissa
    Curious September 2020 British Columbia
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    Buffet! We're not very fancy people and a plated dinner just wouldn't suit us. Plus we have tons of friends with dietary concerns and FHs family has a bunch of picky eaters. This way everyone can eat as much as they want of whatever they want.

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  • R
    Devoted November 2019 Quebec
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    Buffet, working with a small budget it worked better for us. plus I feel there's more options as you can have a little of everything.

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    4 course plated service.

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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
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    Family style. The convience of staying in your seat with the option of having extras 😀
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  • Andrea
    Devoted January 2021 Ontario
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    We're doing buffet! Our families are big eaters, and so are we, so buffet was the only option to have a nice variety of foods!

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    Buffet! more variety and no limitations!
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  • Janaya
    Expert August 2019 Saskatchewan
    Janaya ·
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    We have decided to go with a buffet. I would have loved to do a sit down plated meal but our venue did not offer that for us

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Plated: for me it feels fancier having someone bring the food to you and I'm cursed with buffets - I'm usually at the last table by chance, and one time they forgot our table and started calling seconds. The all-inclusive package of our venue includes plated meals so it was also less thinking for me, and there is options available for guests with dietary requirements.

    We are doing a buffet for our rehearsal dinner, since it is a smaller group.

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  • Kathy
    Frequent user August 2019 Ontario
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    I’m having plated - it’s at a restaurant. Buffet options are nice too. If I was having a bigger wedding I would’ve done that.
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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    Buffet! More options that way
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  • Alix
    Expert June 2021 Saskatchewan
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    I guess ours is kind of like a buffet. It'll be a BBQ, so everyone can decide if they want a hot dog or burger and then there will be a couple salad options.

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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    Buffet style for us!
    We're able to provide so many more options to our vegetarian, pescatarian, celiac friends that way! Plus, it'll be cheaper!

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  • Becky
    VIP September 2019 Ontario
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    Buffet style for us- people can choose what they want out of what we have being served

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    We're having a plated dinner for our wedding.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
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    Buffet. I do not like plated dinners for weddings. Doesn't give guests as much options to eat what they actually like and prefer.
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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    Plated! I’m not a huge fan of buffet weddings, and our plated meal option was just so nice!
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  • Stephanie
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    100% buffet! Plated dinners for me are just so... boring? IDK I have never been to a wedding where the plated dinners are really that spectacular... usually the same options (and I hate how you have to pick before hand) and usually cold... Our buffet was SPECTACULAR! There were so many food options and everyone loved it! If you went up and only wanted pasta, you could only take pasta! Wanted seconds or thirds? Go for it! Great time to try something new! Oh buffets are the best!

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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    Plated all the way. I find food quality is better with plated then buffet, despite lack of options. We choose our venue specifically because of the food in mind.

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  • Erin
    Super May 2022 Ontario
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    I like a plated service, but I also like the buffets for the selection for your guests and making sure that they get enough to eat.

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    Plated for us! I don't even think our venue does a buffet!

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  • Seleena
    Super September 2019 British Columbia
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    We are having plated. It was cheaper than buffet which was weird.
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    Buffet - it's the cheaper option for what we were looking for. I wouldn't even mind getting up and grabbing my own plate tbh. I would get to show off my dress by walking around more Smiley tongue

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    Super September 2020 Ontario
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    Plated for us!

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    Plated for our wedding!
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