Hello Brides! We’ve been engaged for a year, and I have a truly wonderful and kind fiancé. He did not propose with a ring, mainly financial reasons. He is also not buying me a wedding band.
I understand and respect his reasons. Initially I felt resentful of this, but I have been able to let my resentment go and focus on our awesome relationship. However it has not taken away my *desire* or longing for a ring.
If you were in my shoes, would you just buy your own engagement ring and/band, or just live without it?
I have shared my thoughts, but I am not interested in “making” him buy me one because that’s not the spirit in which I would want to receive this gift.
I’ve never asked him for anything so I hope this doesn’t come across materialistic.
Is anyone else here going ringless?
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