My fiance & I have chosen to not have an official bridal party. We attended a wedding last year who did the same & we fell in love with the idea! We have many close friends, and want to keep our day simple & a little more non traditional. That being said, I love the idea of asking four of my girlfriends to be "unofficial bridesmaids" aka party planners etc.
I was looking for some suggestions on how to ask them?