Every wedding I have ever been invited has involved travel so I have never responded instantly as there are things you need to consider. I once RSVP'd late though.
Never! I always send it back within a few days of receiving it!
The only time I think I would take more time responding, is if there were travel involved and I needed to determine if I could get the time off work/etc
I have never. I usually do it right away. Our RSVP deadline was saturday and we are still waiting on a few replies after reaching out to everyone. It's pretty frustrating!
I have never! The last few weddings we were invited to, they knew my FH so it was on him, but I made sure he did.
We did, however, have to last-minute cancel a Yes RSVP to one wedding since my FH couldn't get out of a work shift - he didn't know his schedule far in advance so he was technically free when we responded yes. We felt super bad about it and now he knows his work schedule (different job) so he/we can decline right away now.
I'm with Tori on this one, the first few it was up to my parents to RSVP as I was younger. The last 3 were all up to me! I sent them back as soon as I got the invite!
Heck no! Out of the few weddings I've attended I was a kid so it was up to my parents, but my FH's cousin's wedding last year I RSVP'd as soon as we got the invitation - like same day I got it.
Nope! I usually try to RSVP as soon as I get the invite! I know how important it is to the couple to keep track so i try to get it done right away to not forget!