Neeeeed to ventttt!!!

I think that since they don't know each other and it was your suggestion that they assume you are planning the brunch (this was my assumption when I read your post). Maybe ask them if they all still want to meet on Saturday and just pick a time and a restaurant.

I know how you are feeling, I had these expectations on my bridal party as well, and felt the same way. But what I realized is that there is a lot of miscommunication and lack of understanding on the duties of being a MOH and bridesmaid, especially if it's there first time. I would talk to the them separately, check in with them, see how they are doing, and let them know your plans. And remember its your wedding and not everyone (even the closest people around you) may be as excited for you. But try not let it bother you, be happy, enjoy the moments, talk about how your feeling, accept it, keep planning, and everything will work out . Never forgot the most important part of these moments and planning is the relationship between you and your future Hubby! Happy planning, everything will work out!

I would have assumed myself that this would be organized by you since you were the one to initiate it. Perhaps they have misunderstood?

Definitely, check in with them and see what's up. Maybe just pick a restaurant and time for them to all meet, so it isn't such a big deal.

The first time all my girls met was the day of the bachelorette party. They had been chatting on their own for months, which I wasn't aware of to plan things as well. It could be possible, they have their own chat going too. Something you can casually ask to see if they had any questions or anything.

I understand this can be frustrating.. but perhaps they don't realize that you mean for them to plan it?

I would assume, if I suggested getting together, that I would plan it.. unless I expressly ask them to pick a place and let me know the time/location. You're the person that they all know, so I could see how they'd be waiting on direction from you.

Oh that sounds annoying, but the brunch idea is an amazing way to break the ice!

I think they're assuming that since it's supposed to be an introduction-type of event that you would be the planner, as you are the only link binding them. Also, if you've never asked them for anything, they might not know what their roles are either or what's expected of them.

I think for this brunch, you might need to plan it and then talk to your girls and establish their roles moving forward (bachelorette party, wedding day, etc.).

Hope it all works out