Mother attire worries ....help

I agree with what the others have said! Try and make it PRIORITY to go shopping with her! Ask her yourself now and make it a mom daughter day of it and then you can have a watchful eye on what she picks out hahah! But! Make sure you're okay to compromise! I understand you not wanting mama to flaunt it all but dont try to make her wear a sack or something she really hates too

I say to ask her to go shopping together! Then when you are there you can decide to say something based off of what she pulls to try on. If she doesn't even go for the kind of dress that you are worried about then you don't have to mention it and it won't make her feel like you thought she would do that and try and out shine you. If she does, then you can express your concerns - make sure you play it off like you know she is hot and everything but the bride should have the eyes and her boobage could take away from you in pictures.

I would see if any upcoming sales at places and offer to make girls day out of it. My in laws are like this and also are very large chested compared to my family. I asked them all politely to be more conservative and modest. They all understood but said they wouldn't dress like a nun either, which I don't expect them too. I just asked before they bought something to show it to me as I don't want the main focus on photos to end up being their boobs as they are always way out there.

I would ask to go shopping with her... Invite her out for a day - you guys can go for lunch and check out some places where she can try on dresses and you can help pick some out. If there are any that you think are inappropriate find a nice, polite way to tell her so.

View quoted message I'm hoping she asked me .

Are you able to go shopping with her? I went shopping with my mom this weekend and to my absolute surprise my mom was asking me for my opinion on her dresses!