Male Long Hair for Wedding

What will you be wearing, and how formal is the event? That might help us pick. Or do you have pics of you wearing it both ways for us to vote on?

Most importantly, which way of wearing your hair makes you feel more comfortable and confident?

I saw my friend's virtual wedding and her husband has long hair. But he's Asian so it's straight and just comes down naturally, like "Han" in Fast and Furious.

I have a friend who's a lawyer and his hair is very similar to yours: curly, long and fairly thick. Anytime he has to go to court, he brushes his hair back and ties it in a ponytail.