Maid of honour going silent

I think you should definitely reach out to her and express that you just miss her and want to do wedding planning things together. I'd refrain from mentioning that you think it's since your other friend got engaged since it might make you look jealous. See how the conversation goes and proceeds from there. Maybe she has a lot going on and she doesn't even realize what she's doing.

Sorry this happens you. Maybe have a talk with her to see what’s going on.

Totally fair for you to feel hurt by that! I get that she may be just busy in general but it's always best to get everything out in the open and let her know how you feel. I just had a heart to heart with one of my bridesmaids about something that was bugging me and turns out she didn't even realize what was going on or how anything had gone wrong.

You know that mentality of "Men can't read your mind"? I find that more times than not, it's the other way around for me and my friends!

I'm sorry you are feeling this way! You have every right to be upset with your MOH. I agree with Julie and maybe get together with her and let her know how you are feeling.

I am sorry to hear that this is happening to you. I definitely think you have every right to feel let down and hurt... I have 2 MOH's and 1 of them is just what I imagined in a MOH. My other MOH is Family & although she came right to see my Wedding dress & has bought her dress and shoes, each moh are night and day different. When I text them something exciting I get a text & then a call wanting to hear every single detail from one. I get texts like "nice" from my other MOH. It's made it easier for me to decide who will stand beside me & I am sad 1 is not nearly as involved. I would ask your Moh to go for coffee and meet so you can discuss how you are feeling... You need support during this time and I hope you get the answers & excitement from her that she had when you asked her.