We are having a very small or 5 key wedding of max 35 people. We live in Calgary but don't want to get married here. It's either going to be in the mountains or west coast. Most of our family lives here. My MOH lives in Saskatchewan and that's 5 and 1/2 hour drive. The best man and groomsmen live in the states and will have to fly up. They will be staying with us along with my maid of honour until the wedding however if we do our wedding in the mountains are on the west coast that will be anywhere between 2 to 18 hours away from here. I'm wondering is it supposed to be our responsibility to pay for lodging for our wedding party and also who pays for lodging for the guests?